I was wondering if girls like buff guys.?

Question

I went out with some girl I thought was real hot and she kind of gave me the impression that because I work out and am very muscular that she wasn`t into me to much. She told me my arms don1t hang straight down when I walk and that I`m just too big. She said most girls would feel like that. Is it true girls? Am I working out too much to where girls won`t like me? Or is she just a bad date? I`m not like Arnold or anything, but I am pretty strong and it does show and I like the way I look. Also... Do girls like a tattood dude? I have tattoos on my whole upper body and upper arms. What they call a "chest plate" I can put a short sleeve short on and you can`t see em if needed to cover for what ever reason. I`ve dated Asian women who think it means you are a bad boy to have a tattoo. Thank you ladies for your help to me in these matters.

thanks ladies and for the guy down below, "A" apparently stands for asshole. You are also kind of barking up the wrong tree. You could probably find some topics that are in your best interest which would be homosexuallity in some other catagory. This isn`t it.

Answer 1

yes buff guys are VERY hot...but for me you don't hafta be all muscles, but no girl wants flab. =P

Answer 2

Everyone's taste is different but it's true that a lot of women don't like really buff guys - the ones who are so burly and muscled they can't wipe themselves. The main reason is that they tend to be self-obsessed, vain, and only into themselves and their great bodies. Also, they tend to be judgmental and derisive of people who are not in great shape. I'm not insinuating you are that way but it's often the case. As for the tattoos - I personally think they are disgusting and make you look like a criminal but again, everyone's taste is different.

Answer 3

Coming from a 14 year old girl No do not try to impress girls by being buff only hoes like guy who are buff they normally would cheat on you anyways ... be yourself ! be sweet generous and do NOT BE A DOUCHE AROUND YOUR FRIENDS DONT BE AWKWARD !! and dont be shy pick girls who are unique! normally the drop dead gorgeous big boobed girls will turn out to be single moms with 5 kids fat ugly and saggy boobs just saying ;) oh and dont try to act like a badass girls hate that!

Answer 4

Speaking only for myself, I like a muscular guy, but not tattoos, nor piercings on a man. There is a difference of being muscular and muscle bound. Muscular is all good, muscle bound is not so nice. Definition is very nice.. but going overboard as with anything is just not appealing.

Answer 5

If you're starting to look like Arnold then that's gross, but if you're just big and strong then that's hot. She sounds like a bad date. About the tatoos--too many isn't good. A couple is ok, but if you're covered in them, ieeeww!

Answer 6

It just depends on the girl but tons of girls want a muscular guy. Unless that's all they do is work out, then that's just vain.

Answer 7

too many tatoo's creep me out. However the occaitional good one can be really sexy.
I find that if your muscles are too big/have too many tatoo's you look sooo cheesy. Like a creepy wanna be stud sleeps around and i cant stand that,

goood buff .... http://madeinbrazilmag.com/fashion/spfw/pokopano-S2007.jpg

bad buff http://mygayneighbours.typepad.com/my_gay_neighbours/images/josh.jpg

Answer 8

Girls are all different. You will find someone who likes you for you.

Answer 9

doesn't get any better than an insecure moron dating a shallow narrow minded imbecile.
Good luck with her.

Answer 10

Of course :)