what does someone do if they really don't want a relationship but is in one and stays because they love the person? ..not wanting one, being not emotionally ready maybe. i would think tha if you love them to stay.
2007-02-15 10:25:29 · 15 answers · asked by crystal_topaze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is a hard question...because if you love someone then you want to be with them..and if you are with them, then you are in a relationship.
So you have to decide how much this person means to you and if you are ready and willing to sacrafice not wanting a relationship...to be with him.
2007-02-15 10:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the time when you really want to play things out in your head. Think about where you think the relationship is headed. If it's headed for marriage and you aren't ready, then you need to talk to the other person. If you are feeling pressured to have sex, then get out of the relationship. Make sure you really do love them and you like them also. Pray about it and try to figure out what God wants you to do in the situation. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-15 10:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you truly love someone if you don't want to be in a relationship with that person, or anyone for that matter. You may care for that person, but if it were love you would want the relationship and everything that it entails. I wouldn't be in a relationship if I felt that way, personally.
2007-02-15 10:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by pobrecita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you just did answer your question
if your relationship isn't as good as it was before, because you don't want one at the moment, how about you just take a break
tell your partner...i feel emotinally instable at the moment, and I think it's best for the both of us to take a break
but make sure that it's not too long and that you DO talk to your partner every once and a while
good luck!
2007-02-15 10:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by zorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with the other person and let them know how you feel and why. If your not comfortable with the comitment, there's no point. Just be honest. You need to figure out what it is you want and think of the other person as well. Do what feels right to you
2007-02-15 10:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Yankees Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship is all about endurance,faithfullness,tolerating and above all divine love for each other.try to found out whats really the problem that makes you not to want to be in one.but be sincere go to the person politely and declare your feelings to ward the relationship.thanks and goodluck.
2007-02-15 10:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....you cant not be in a relationship and still love the person....thats kind of fyucked up..if you love the person, stay with them..
2007-02-15 10:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready to be in a relationship then you will only end up hurting the one you love, so do yourself a favor and get out of it.
love isn't always enough.
2007-02-15 10:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by elyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur talking about u, stay if u love her. if u separate, mayB u won't or can't get back together when u r ready. just make sure the gf nos it.
2007-02-15 10:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by :kjelseth: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...really don't want"... are, to me, the key words. Romantic relationships are so all-encompassing of your life, that to be in one knowing that it is not right for you could be very unhealthy. I used to love my Dad's old hunting dog, even though one day it put me in the hospital.
2007-02-15 10:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋