I have known I'm gay for a while now, and had a relationship at one point, but there is a new problem. There is a guy I like, who is 3 years younger than me (looks old for his age), and I am really good friends with one of his friends, but him and I don't really hang out with each other much. I knew him since he was in my moms class, and have . We all snowboard, and sometimes the three of us go together. This weekend we are goin up again. I have asked him if he wanted to go up to the hill, just the two of us, but he seems a bit uncomfortable without his other friend there (the one I know really well).. He has been making eye contact with me alot, and is really nice, but I can't do anything in front of his friend, because he wouldn't probably take it well...
I don't want to email him because that's insincere, and I suck on the phone... I don't really see him other than at the skihill... what can I do? Anyone?
2007-02-15 10:22:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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...and have... *and have boarded with him a few times in the past.
2007-02-15 10:24:59 · update #1
I'm not of age yet, so that's not a concern, and I guess I neglected to say that we have been alone before, and I was just too much of a coward to tell him how I felt... And I know him enough to know that the reason he wants to go to the skihill if his friend does is because they have been best friends since they were kids... I have gone alone with him a couple of times, but like I said, I just didn't have the courage to tell him how I felt.
2007-02-15 10:34:41 · update #2
If he's underaged and your not drop it, quick.
2007-02-15 10:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been making eye contact with you a lot, and he is very nice. He has made some signs he like you. Maybe he is a little uncomfortable with the hill thing because he feels he is not in a neutral territory, it would be good if you ask him go out for a drink, just the two of you. Even so, if he won't accept you must face him and tell him what is going on. Surely you will find, at least, five minutes alone with him. Be careful with the age thing, if he is under age, forget it. Luck.
2007-02-15 10:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pato FV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to burst your bubble but just because he makes eye contact doesn't mean he's interested; he could just be polite. As for being nice, believe it or not, there are nice straight people in the world.
If I were you I would just relax and let the friendship grow on its own. If he's interested he'll find the right time/place for himself to express it.
2007-02-23 09:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should tell him how you feel. It might mess everything upi. I think you should look out for any physical contact he gives you, you will know in time if he has feelings for you just play it cool, don't force it x
2007-02-23 02:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by cinders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not interested in being alone with you when you're with your friends than he's probably not interested in anything further from what you already have?
2007-02-15 10:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both young, don't push the issue... just have fun and if something's gonna happen, it will... and, of course, milkbone hit the nail on the head...
2007-02-22 04:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and aks him out! if he says no its a no but at least you are asking!
2007-02-22 11:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah what milkbone said
2007-02-15 10:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋