when a GIRL GRINDS (dance) HOW DO THEY STAND?

Question

1. Are girls suposes to stand with their legs apart or together.
2. I saw some people lean over and move their hips but how do you know if a boy wants you to do that
3. How do you know when a boy wants you to face him or face away from him
4. How do you grind when you are facing the boy
5. Is the boy likely to put his hands on your hips

Sorry about all the questions but could you just give me a step to step guide on how to grind including all the answers to these question please, I would be very grateful AND BEFORE ANYONE ASKES I AM OLD ENOUGH TO GRIND AND ITS NOT DISGUSTING ITS THE CULTURE OF HOW PEOPLE DANCE IN WHERE MY PARENTS ORIGINATE AND WHERE IT STARTED SO I THINK ITS QUITE RUDE PEOPLE SAYING THAT

but i need to know HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE BOY WANTS can you give me an example of what he might do if he wanted me to turn round for example

Answer 1

With all these questions - I'd say, you are too concentrated on pleasing the boy. Don't worry, he'll have fun if you do.
1. It is not possible to do it if your feet are completely together.
2. I never saw that, but what you describe sounds kind of bad, on a cheap side. Yeah, it would look totally stupid if the boy doesn't respond to this, and you have no way of knowing if he will or not.
3. You have no way of knowing what he wants. But he'll give you some hints. You can also give him hints as of what you want better.
4. Same way, but your feet are not exactly in front of his feet, but offset like this:
0.....0
....0.....0
5. He might. But the question is, do you want it or not? If you don't mind - then let it happen. If you don't want - just take his hands off your hips, or turn in such a way that he'd have take them away.
If you say that you had seen it in your home town you probably know what to do. Just try it at home with music, mirror and imaginary boy. Here is a good link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grinding_%28dancing%29