My wife to be had her bachelorette party and a mutual friend that was there email me the pics.
There was a male stripper.
He got completely naked.
She rubbed oil on his chest, butt and his manhood.
She also licked whipped cream off his chest and manhood (she took the whole thing in her mouth)
My friend said that most of the other women did the same. And nothing else happend.
When my fiance return tomorrow from Vegas what should I do?
Ladies opinions needed!
2007-02-15 10:04:36 · 18 answers · asked by orangecross666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to answer jasmine, yes the pictures show her with his whole thing in her mouth. Guess she sucked it, but not to finish.
2007-02-15 10:20:08 · update #1
First of all, the mutual friend was wrong sending you the pictures. Bachelorette parties as well as Bachelor parties are normally wild and things like this happen. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just saying it happens.
As far as what you say... how about "how was the party, I heard it was a little over the top..." Then let her know what you know (otherwise it will eat you up inside). Her response should give you the answer regarding forgiveness.
Good luck
2007-02-15 10:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I may be very old fashioned but I believe there are or should be lines you don't cross when you are engaged. I know it was a bachelorette party and the idea was to have fun. I'm all for fun. No one loves a party more than I do but there is such a thing as going too far. Rubbing oil on his chest may not have been so bad though if I were a man I wouldn't want my woman rubbing oil on some other man's chest.
Rubbing oil on his butt and especially on his flag pole is way over the top. Then to make matters 100 times worse she licks whipped cream off his chest and flag pole to the point of putting it in her mouth? Isn't that the kind of thing that should be reserved for your wedding night? How romantic would it be to rub oil on you and lick whipped cream off your chest and private parts.
When she comes back you two should have a talk. You need to tell her that what you saw in the pictures was disturbing to you. You need to iron this out now BEFORE the wedding. If this is the kind of thing she does now what will happen after you're married? will she think it's ok to have the plumber over one day and have him lick whipped cream off her?
Other people are saying that this is the kind of thing that men do all the time. That may be. People overdose on drugs, run red lights and kill other people too. That doesn't mean that it's right. When you started dating seriously, you made a spoken or unspoken promise to be true to each and only to each other.
It obviously bothered you enough to write Yahoo Answers so it's an issue. Straighten it out now before it balloons into something more.
2007-02-15 10:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wild Bachelorette Pictures
2016-11-11 06:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you said she rubbed oil on his chest and butt I said, that's no big deal. But when you said she put it on his manhood and then sucked it ... you lost me there! I don't know. That would be hard to digest. Out of curiousity, why did this mutual friend send you a picture of what your fiancee was doing? Assuming she is a woman and friend of your wife's as well. Seems as if she is trying to get something started behind your fiancee's back. Man, I would have to have a serious talk with my fiancee about this one. I mean if she is that willing to suck a strippers **** then that is scary. Doesn't sound like a condom was involved either. Even if it was, that's not cool.
You can have fun at a bachelor/bachelorette party and use common sense at the same time. Cheating is cheating and as far as I am concerned she has cheated on you.
Also, that's a good way to catch herpes or other STD's. She was not using her head at all ... and don't take the excuse that she was drunk ...
2007-02-15 11:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW, the party the stripper, vegas, Cool. But She actually put his "Manhood" in her mouth. I would not be home when she got there, Sorry, But if she'll do that I would not want her, Period. I would not be alright with that in any way! I would not want to have kids with someone who would do that. Correction, I would not want any one who would do that to kiss my kids, or me. Thats how people get viruses they cant get rid of and why will you have a virus, Cause your so called bride to be couldnt resist the temptation or just did it under peer presure, If she'll do that she'll do anything.
By the way your mutual friend sounds suspect to, she is her friend yet told you something that could easily destroy your relationship, and at the same time she is leting you know she is a whore too, sorry, and would suck off a stripper so she'd probably do the same to you. Lose both of them, they both sound no good, the friend is trying to ruin your relationship, Y do you think that is?
2007-02-15 10:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by tt1984 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am getting married in a month myself and I am having my party planned as we speak. Will there be strippers..probley. Will I get physical with them..probley not. You have to keep in mind that she knew this would be the last oppurtunity for her to spread her wings before walking down the isle. She more then likely sees that what she did as wrong but she also probley hopes that the saying is true..what happens in Vagas stays in Vagas. I am sure you love your soon to be wife and she as well loves you. I would say that if this has happen on another occasion then be very cautious but it this is the only time then forgive her and put it behind you. You should not judge your entire future on one mistake..granted it was a big mistake but I beleive in forgiveness within the marriage vows. Good luck!
2007-02-15 10:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's going WAY too far. It's up to you whether to forgive her or not, but just know.....she went overboard. I'd make her take an STD test before marrying her. Good luck.....
2007-02-15 10:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating pure an simple
2014-03-16 12:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a married woman and if my husband had done something like that I would have had second thoughts. I think it shows a lack of respect for you. Also there is the safety issue.
2007-02-15 10:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by iceemama 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Your previous questions indicate you have been obsessing over this for some time... and that sex situations seem to follow you about like a puppy... Amsterdam? ;-)
Good luck. Sounds like you are made for each other.
2007-02-15 10:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋