We have been together for 2 years and the sex is still good. But the thrill of sex is not the there. I miss the, "I miss you sex, I cant wait to get you into bed sex, damn i love you so much sex, i know were out in public but could we disappear somewhere for a quicky cuz i really want you sex" That we use to have. Seriously what should I do. fyi we have lived together for the past year, and I guess thats what changed it, what could I do to tease him and drive him crazy like i use to.... I miss being lusted after by him:(
2007-02-15 10:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by tt1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The suggestions made by others may be okay, but I think we all want what we can't have. Don't be so 'available' for sex. Tease him, like you probably did when you first started dating. Don't let him take you/sex for granted. Flirt, flirt, flirt .... and be confident and let him know, in a subtle way, that he just may not get lucky tonight. Know what I mean?
And to keep those sensual feelings alive, don't let him see you do the necessities/habits/traits, etc. of daily life, like brushing your teeth, make sure you close the bathroom door when using it, don't belch or pass gas around him -- these are things that can destroy the lust and passion between a man and a woman.
Good luck, sweetie.
2007-02-15 11:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Gayle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several sexy things that you can do for your man. I like all of the ideas listed but also consider role playing, toys, and teasing throughout the day. Do not let him have you but make him want you by playing with him, kissing him, and touching him. After a few hours of this he will be ready to tear your clothes off..lol Good luck and have fun..
2007-02-15 11:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that I see a lot is that when we ask for a woman to dress a certain way... etc. The woman thinks it won't look good or right so she doesn't do it. I think it comes down to two different ideas of what's attractive.
2007-02-15 10:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you shower, pretend you left something in the laundry room so you can walk through in nothing but your panties and bra...bend over in front of him while he is standing close behind you...(I like to do this while we are grocery shopping) While he is walking past you rub your hand across his midsection and turn and wink.
2007-02-15 10:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in a sex drive mismatch marriage. I'm sorry to have to say this, as I am in such a marriage and it is hell. There is a support group for people like us - SWAGE.
2007-02-15 11:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys really don't need too much! they are either hungry, or horny! Fix him a big steak, and blow him while he's having dinner, would certainly make me happy, and would probably be good for him! Maybe try talking to him would help also!
2007-02-15 10:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some lusting yourself. maybe a sexy outfit for both of you, a secret pick-up in your favorite bar. Do what ever comes to your mind, just have fun....
2007-02-15 10:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋