I have no friends at school, i constantly hang round with my twin bro. The guys dnt like cus, bcuz we apperently act hard. The girls dnt like us bcus wer no longer funny and got better grades. What do we do. Do u think i shud start fresh in uni, how do i mke ppl like me im not in 2 football either. Wat do i do im so annoyed and depressed i wish ppl wud like me. I dnt no if im 2 arrogant or ppl get jelous.i need advice plzz help!
2007-02-15 09:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by gareth khaajgie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dnt no if its cus we think wer it !! im sure its not arrgoancy but dey call us gay .
2007-02-15 10:08:06 · update #1
People get jealous, it's part of their nature. Just don't take it seriously and lighten up. If you take it like it's a joke, people will gravitate to you more because they'll like the fact that you're easy going. In the meantime, have fun with your twin bro and keep studying hard. You shouldn't let negative comments stop you from succeeding. Also try to separate your academic life from your social life.
2007-02-15 09:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by aka goddess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just remember this is only a short phase of your life, in a couple of years time when you are surrounded by a stack of good friends, you will wonder what you were so worried about - seriously, time has a way of taking care of problems like this.
I had a couple of patches once when i was six and again in my tweens (11 or 12) where friends were few and far between and everything i did to make new friends just seemed to be wrong, but amazingly now i have some great great fun and loving friends I even have a little smile to myself and scratch my head and remember the times when i didnt have any - and it makes me appreciate
the friends i have now even more and that improves our friend ship!
So you see even though it feels like something bad is happening to you - it will make you friendship in the future better!!!!
Time is all it takes, just be patient! You'll end up making and meeting new friends and you'll apreciate them when you do! And they'll love you all the more for being such a good friend!
2007-02-15 13:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Babloo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once your at uni, you realise that the people around you in your course all have very similar interests. So it pulls the gap alot faster.
At uni there no grade difference between people or anything like that. But in saying that, dont parade around your marks (that will annoy people).
Dont try to make friends. Friendships happen naturally. If you try, then you will always get disappointed.
Try talking to your lab partner, or within your study group. It wont take long for you to establish a friendship base with people. And you dont have to like football to have friends.
Just be yourself, have fun and remember you also have to make the effort to become frineds, its not just all them.
Good luck
2007-02-15 21:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u've a clear pic abt urself. U know.. u don't have good grades, u r no longer funny, u r arrogant. Y don't u start to set that right. I'm sure once u clear ur faults u will be liked by everyone. Cheer up n good luck!
2007-02-15 10:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to spell out your words for one thing, you would not turn in a term paper with writing like that would you? When you get to college (good for you) hopefully in time you will meet people from different areas of life and from different parts of the state or country. you do have a best friend and he looks alot like you. you do not have to be into football or anything else for that matter. people tend to be small minded and only want to hang with people like them so wait6 til college and see.
2007-02-15 10:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..its okae...its not like we make friends with evryone ,ok!!may b u dnt hav ppl in ur class who have same tuning as u hav....its difficult to b in a class wid no friennds...but not impossible,,
jus take my advice,,dnt let urself bother by other ppl...u can b urself,,n true friends like u the way u r!! if u wanna change ,,do it but do it for urself...so that u feel nice,,,not other ppl in ur class,,,,
if u ll let them feel that u r happy widout them n enjoying...they ll b more attracted to u!!jus b urself,,n dont loose urself! dnt depend on anybody...
sorry ,,if m rude but i got such heart breaking experience...n i let my friends go...who wer not actually my friends...n now m more happy widout them....
dnt b in a group..tak to all of the class....n dnt change for god sake's for smone else!
go ahead..b happy,,dnt bother abt nybody!!! jus b cool..n nice,,n twins r the best!!
2007-02-19 06:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by priya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a twin anymore. Get a makeover. Like new hair style, try different style of clothing. if you need more help im me.
2007-02-16 07:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first stop hanging around your twin so much.
Join a club or something.
Stop trying so hard & just relax...
2007-02-15 09:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probably jealousy and you dont need friends like them. Just pray on it. You cant make people be yur friennd it will come naturally. Just stay focus on yur self-esteem and be yourself always.
2007-02-15 10:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Star Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn or join an course of behavioural mannerism or art of living your problems will go in a jiffy.
2007-02-15 10:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by ganesh n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋