For years I have searched for new methods of humiliation ranging from minor chat online to public shows for up to 8 females at one show. Most of the humiliation is done through various methods of corporal punishment. Yes, the pain hurts and in often unbearable but the sight of those females enjoying themselves allows me to overcome the extreme pain and of course come back for more later. What is your thoughts on why someone would allow this to be done to them? And were should the line be drawn?
2007-02-15 09:49:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some find it arousing.. as you enjoy giving the pain.. they enjoy receiving. The line should be drawn at the safe word.. or if you know there hard limits. don't push to far beyond it. everyone has there fetish. It's normal.
2007-02-15 09:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Well, humans tend to act in unusual ways most especially when they are crowded in urban environments. Recorded psychological disorder after psychological disorder arose only when humans started to congregate in cities... I assume you are probably in/near one as well.
That said, humiliation is something unusual, and may result in certain emotions. If you happen to tie it to something sexual, that image remains in your mind and you don't get rid of it. (It is very easy to remember anything tied to emotion for a number of reasons.) I may be alone with this, but when I sit in positions for a certain amount of time (like at a barber's shop) an unusual feeling comes across my body that is quite pleasant. It seems to me as though it is related to placing yourself in another's hands and merely observing from the outside, but that's off topic. The humiliation could be something similar however- maybe not so erotic as it is pleasant.
As for where the line should be drawn, that's relatively easy- if it doesn't end up at the point where anyone dies, is disfigured, or undergoes something against their will, then it's fine. That's my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt.
2007-02-15 09:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer why it is that YOU find humiliation so exciting, because we don't know YOU or your background.
Why would someone allow it? You answered that yourself. Because they find it exciting and stimulating. Where should the line be drawn? According to who? What does 'should' mean? Each person will draw the line at the point it seems appropriate to them. There is no 'should'.
2007-02-15 09:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about power relations and control. Some people get off being in power and in control, while others prefer feeling less powerful and dominated. I've always said the brain is by far the most important sexual organ.
2007-02-15 09:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's hot
2007-02-15 09:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pathologically masochistic
2007-02-15 09:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadomacochism? that's bad
2007-02-15 09:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by John R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because everything else has already been done
2007-02-15 09:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the flip are you talking about?
2007-02-15 09:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alterna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wierd.
2007-02-15 09:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by ra63 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋