is anal sex bad?
2007-02-15 09:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
What is right for some might not be right for others. Just because one very strange woman doesn't like anal, and curiously doesn't seem to be able to bring herself to even use the words "anal sex", doesn't mean that her opinion is the one that all women have to hold. I sure don't. Here it is in a nutshell, if you want to do anal then there isn't anything wrong with it that and if you don't then that's also alright. If you are only curious then that's natural too. Some women enjoy it and others don't. It's because we're not all alike and don't let anyone else tell you what your opinion should be.
Is anal sex bad? No, it isn't bad but it also isn't for everyone. I confess that I enjoy it but that's just me. Also there isn't anything wrong with tossing a little nasty into a relationship now and again so please don't feel self conscious. There are times that I can be very nasty and my husband loves me all the more for it.
If you decide that you want to try anal then go into it with an open mind and don't let others, including me, tell you what's right or what's wrong for you. The mechanics of anal have been discussed here, Oh God have they, in plenty of other questions so just do a search if you want to know more. Best of luck.
2007-02-16 05:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Barb S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, just take it easy and use lubrication to help with the initial insertoin. It may be a bit uncomfortable at first but after your past the first part of it, it can be fun. You can also "please" yourself at the same time or for an extra added pleasure for both, you could use a small vibrator while he is inside you "back there".
2007-02-15 12:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by wdethloff 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No not at all. Some of my female friends really don't enjoy it but then there are some like me who absolutely love it. As the above answer says just take use lots of lubricant on yourself and just inside your anus and on his penis. and take things slowly. Try using a vibrator on your clit or in your vagina or just touch yourself to help relax and smooth things along.
If you are going to try it then good luck and I hope you enjoy it.
2007-02-15 14:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you truly aren't nasty then you must already know the answer. Yes it is very bad. It is a filthy, dangerous and degrading act that demeans women. This is not a natural practice and it will probably cost you the use of your bowels and might even lead to rectal cancer.
2007-02-15 16:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
No
2007-02-15 11:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by fyffedog_43202 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋