ok so im finally in an upper grade an these girls offerd me to be one of there friends i had to say yes(p.s. they were the popular girls in school). So the next few weeks i have been hanging out with them, but then i got so bored so i hang out with my best friend Bethany. So far they didnt care but i still hung out wit them sumtimes. So then in class the teacher put everyone in table and then Alexis r. and Courtney g. started talking to girls named Morgan and Katie their my friends too but i dont to them that much. So anyway I got mad cause a girl stole sumthing from ME !!! Courtney and Alexis said"wats up why do you dont have wat we aggred to wear". So i justed stayed quiet. So then Alexis sent me a note saying "We were thinking so like alot about it and you are like so out of our club" she told me straight in my face that morgan are katie were so much cooler than me and they said i can be back in but i have to stop hanging out wit Beth! WHAT SHOULD i DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 09:37:39 · 17 answers · asked by Alexis F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DO NOT GO BACK WITH THEM!!
No matter what you think might happen if you are friends with the popular girls, you don't want to be. If they want to tell you who you hang out with, then tell them who you ARE going to! If they tell you not to hang out with your best friend, that is wrong. Do whatever you want but take my advice and don't get mixed up with the popular kids.
2007-02-15 09:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abandon your bff for the popular girls because I've had that type of situation. I strongly suggest that you hold onto your friendship because in the end the popular girls don't make you who you are. Don't worry about being popular, even though you've probably heard it so many times, i've been where you are so take it from me, just be yourself because people like you way better that way and it doesn't matter that the popular girls don't think you're cool. Stand up for yourself and hopefully Bethany will stand up for you too.
2007-02-15 09:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by aka goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with who you want to. if someone is being mean to you then i wouldn't hang out with them because thats only going to make you feel bad about yourself and you won't be happy with your life. and also, i don't think you should hang out with the "popular" girls cuz it will bring a lot of drama into your life and everyone will want you to pick sides in fights and you could end up in bad situations where you don't know what to do. remember, being "popular" isn't as important as being a good person so think about that when you decide who you want to hang out with. if you have to, just make some new friends that are actually nice to you
2007-02-15 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its pretty amazing how confusing relationships can be, am i right, Alexis? i think the best thing for you to do is to stay friends with Bethany. if those other girls want to pick your friends for you and try to change who you are then they aren't your real friends. i know its hard now but it will get easier when you figure out who your real friends are in life. good luck, i hope you get it all sorted out because having friends is supposed to be fun!
2007-02-15 09:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by shy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if you want true friends or just to be with the popular crowd. Friends are there no matter what and popular people are not. They are just friends as long as you do and say what they agree with.
2007-02-15 09:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by the fnho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Well, first, learn what an emergency is...this is not an emergency! Second, learn to write without using run-on sentences. Third, learn to state your problem concisely so people do not give up before reaching the end of your diatribe. Fourth, look up the word "diatribe." Or is this whole thing just a joke?
2007-02-15 09:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, i just have one thing to say, DONT CARE WHAT THEY THINK!!!!!!!! the fact that they would treat anyone like that proves that you are a better person than them, the people that dont hang out with you now, will NOT matter in two years time, hang out with who you care about and who cares about you and screw the rest of them, enjoy yourself while you can and tell them that they are a bunch of horse-humpers and be done with it, you'll feel much better about yourself and will have a better time in the long run.
2007-02-15 09:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by avemaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what! U shouldn't care about popular girls..im kinda popular in skool and i dont give a crap! HANG WITH UR TRUE FRNDS CUZ POPULAR'S ARE JUST PEOPLE TOO! U WILL HAVE A BETTER LIFE IF U PIKED HAVING UR BETTER (TRUE) FRNDS OTHER WIZE U WILL REGRET IF U DONT!
2007-02-15 09:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by forever<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you should stop wasting your time....who cares if they're popular or not??? it DOESN'T make them better then you. you should hang out with your real friends; the ones that will stick by you no matter what happens.
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