I mean: suppose I accept certain kind of people as my friends and he cant, I think its perfectally fine to let my friends stay over, and he does not like that, Suppose best friends call me at 4am and he hates that,
I like to talk though problems, he would rather let time solve them
I like dealing with the situation now and moving on, He wont deal with the situation now, and see where it goes in a few days - and will Not talk about it.
I will invited my guy friends over for dinners and go out for movies and coffee with them, he gets over posessive.
He calls me 40 times a day, I dont like that
He is always late, I cant stand that
He is forever nagging me about how everything is schedualed in, but thats the way it works for me
When we fight, I usually go for a drive right after, and he has never once come after or asked me where i went, he just waits till i get back
I am not sure if this is the way it si suppose to be,
or what now? do i stick or say NEXT
2007-02-15 09:29:42 · 4 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I like the simple things he does for me, and the way he knows what i am going to say or thinking of, before i say anything
I love the way he thinks like me at times, and likes the same things as me
I like the way he keeps telli ng me he loves me
But, I DONT LIKE THE WAY, he has never said it in public, hugged or kissed me in public - that would just make me feel more like i am his only his
and i love hugs, and he isnt like that
2007-02-15 09:41:45 · update #1
There are things that you have to look at when you want to be in a relationship with someone. Those things are the "little" things people talk about to see if they're compatible.
It doesn't sound like you guys are compatible. You two seem very different from each other, even opposites.
He may seem perfect, but is he perfect for you? I don't think so, your lifestyle are very conflicting and they only spell problems for later on.
If you could see his differences as worthy attributes, then great...but if they're annoying and frustrating and you can't see the logic in them, then you know what to do...say, "NEXT."
2007-02-15 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NEXT. This guy is a control freak.
2007-02-15 17:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like about him? Anything? It sounds to me like you need to find someone who thinks more like you do.
2007-02-15 17:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by sissyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question you need to ask yourself is can u accept this???
If u cannot---move on...if yes then stay
2007-02-15 17:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋