How might I get my wife to try different sexual positions?

Question

She is sort of conservative any ideas i can try , i only want to please her

Answer 1

Get to the root of why she feels that way, is it religious or just that her parents were strict?? If you start at the begining and talk about it and the fact that there is nothing wrong or gross about two people who are in a loving relationship trying new things, then she might see it differently. Look up books at barnes and noble and try to find one to help her see it differently. Be patient and let her know it's just like trying new foods, it doesn't mean you don't like what you've had it's just fun to try new things. Good luck

Answer 2

Try this: during foreplay, when you are sure she is aroused, whisper a suggestion in her ear while gently nudging her body into the suggested position. She will let you know if she's willing or not. If she doesn't go for the idea the first time you bring it up, don't give up -- she may need some time to get used to the idea of what you are proposing.
Be prepapred for the possibility that she will want to "talk" about it before ( or perhaps after) doing it. I know, guys usually hate that, but we women need to process things verbally.

If your intentions are honorable, and you truly want to please her, that will come through in your communication.

Answer 3

Go buy the Kama Sutra book, get some oils, scents stuff, put it in a basket and give it to her. Tell her each month you'd like to try someone from the book. Write her a letter and tell her you are doing this out of love and respect for her. She might blush, but I'm sure you'll get to try some new things.

Answer 4

Has she grew to become right into a fetishist or basically discovered an exceedingly clever thank you to regulate you? look, after 19 years, a individual is fortunate to be getting any in any respect, yet now you comprehend a thank you to get it each time you p.c. & any way you p.c.... Make lemonade bro, and if its too bitter to swallow, throw some vodka in there, lord is conscious that enables whilst my companion has a extraordinary request, like missionary place or something.

Answer 5

Positions? When a woman just lays there it sure takes the pleasure out of it for everyone involved, and if she doesn't enjoy it or at very least act like it, the mood goes from wanting to make it fun to making it work. I can relate.

Start with talking, go on date nights without the kids, make suggestive hints. touching, getting her in the mood, to make it pleasurable for her may have different meanings for her then for you. It's not just copulation for them.

Answer 6

How about. "Hey honey!! What do you think if we try it THIS way!" Just be straight forward and say it. Of course, if she likes wine it may loosen her up before you make the suggestion. Not too much now we're only talking about a glass or two at the most. lol

Answer 7

With a blindfold. Not to trick her, but anticipation can make it more interesting. It may also relieve her of any mental bagage about being straight laced or whatever.

Answer 8

First she has to real turned on just before climax. Then u basically tell her what to do. its a dominance thing, not rough just confidence with your self.

Answer 9

1---take control like a man should

2---get her drunk

both seem to make me try new things with my husband

Answer 10

you have to please both of you not just her, it's a two way street. just tell her you wanna try something new. or move her around the way you want her, and if she doesn't like it stop.