And has it lasted?
2007-02-15 08:03:11 · 15 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I was hit with the feeling that the marriage wasn't going to last right before I walked down the aisle...it didn't. Four years later I was blessed with a divorce.
Since then, the one thing that has stuck with me is the quote (I can't remember the source) "Don't marry someone you think you can live with, marry that one person you can't live without."
2007-02-15 08:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by kac7700 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost walked away on my wedding day. I wish I had. I'm now going through a divorce. We were only married a year and a half. I knew it was wrong. My advice is to get out while you can, if not, it will cost you in the long run.
2007-02-15 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Michael W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And yes I went through with the wedding. and NO it didn't work out.
Many people get nervous, but if you have serious doubts and especially if you THINK he will change once you are married........that doesn't happen. Whatever is bad about him will just get worse as time goes on. And marriage doesn't inspire a man to love more, care more, pay more attention to you, honor you more etc.
Really it is what you see is what you get
2007-02-15 16:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, everyone on here is either divorced or happy. I had major doubts but I am guessing it was just cold feet, because a year later and I am just madly in love with him.
I think I was just nervous about everything. Everyone in my family is divorced so that thought came up. I remember looking at their wedding pictures and seeing how happy they were and now they are divorced but my honey and me have a relationship where we talk about everything. EVERYTHING. I even talked about my doubts and everything and we talked about it.
Open up.
2007-02-15 16:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Erin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had serious doubts. 2 months into the marriage, I caught him looking at kiddie porn, then he went back to his drugs and alcohol. I left and am in the process of a divorce. Had I known about the kiddie porn to begin with, we never would have talked, let alone got married.
2007-02-15 17:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like green eyes, I had doubts and now nearly one year to the day, we are going through a divorce. I personally have had people say it's just cold feet. If you feel like running, PUT YOUR SNEAKERS ON AND GO!!! It is normal to feel apprehensive about it, yes, but deep down you truly know what is right.
2007-02-15 16:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had MAJOR doubts and almost canecelled wedding 2 days before. But now I loooooooved him and going to have his baby. My doubts were all in my head and imagination.
2007-02-15 16:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubts or nerves? Nerves are one thing, and everyone has them for one reason or another.
If you have doubts, best to talk it over with someone you trust to give you an honest, no-holds-barred answer.
My husband (on the day of his first marriage) "knew" he was making a mistake, and as a result spent 38 years in hell.
So be honest with yourself....and your future partner.
2007-02-15 16:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,I had,and I went through with it because the guests were arriving and my parents were so so so happy,I couldn't break their hearts one more time...and I was confused...and sometimes I still have doubts,but it passing because actually I think I married a good guy
2007-02-15 18:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by HPA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been married a year and a half. i had doubts on my wedding day and right now i am very very unhappy. everyday i plan to leave.
2007-02-15 16:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋