Heres my question; If your married is birth control okay? If not, can you pull out? If not, do you stop having sex when you have the maximum amount of kids you are comfortable with? I keep seeing these questions about abstinance being the answer. I just don't get it. Am I only supposed to have sex with my wife if we want a baby? What if we are just feeling cooky on valentines day but we already have four kids?
2007-02-15 07:49:14 · 3 answers · asked by Tim 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I believe that birth control is okay when you are married. Sometimes it is just not the right time for children. Sometimes there are even health issues involved. Would you want your wife to have to endure more than two c-sections? It is safe, but painful. Sometime there are money issues in a marriage. I do believe that children are a blessing, but it takes money to care for them. So, if you don't your wife to use birth control, then you should consider a condom ( I know you wont agree to that). Sex is an important part of a relationship it shouldn't be stressful, and should have as much as you want.
2007-02-15 08:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by pretty_as_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinance as an answer to birth control is just stupid, brought up by stupid people. Pay no attention to them. You and your wife enjoy yourselves, and if you don't want kids, you can:
1. use a latex condom
2. use a latex condom with a spermicide foam
3. have your wife take birth control pills
4. have your wife get a hysterectomy
5. get a vasectomy
6. go oral or anal
7. get an abortion
8. get the "morning after" pill
But don't stop having sex-you both may wither away.....
2007-02-15 15:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sex all the time and if the baby come the baby comes. It's not the baby's fault we had unprotected sex.
2007-02-15 15:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋