Everyone believes (even though they dont have any problem with him) that i deserve someone better because i am more educated and communicative than him.We love so much each other and wanted to get married but now i am not sure..What if they prove right and i get stuck in a marriage where i am not happy.I weigh up the pros and the cons and i can't conclude,they have influenced me..i dont want others to look down on my husband..What should i do?
2007-02-15 07:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by smaragda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow your heart. Don't let other people's doubts become yours. I am more educated than my hubby and more communicative in a lot of ways. We have two beautiful kids and will be married for 19 years in August. If you love him, don't let other people's feelings cloud what you want.
2007-02-15 07:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the way you are thinking you shouldn't marry anyone at all because some time you would meet someone that would look down at whom so ever you get married to. What only matters is what you think about the person and in turn what they think of you. Don't think that you should make this an issue or make you even think twice. If you love the person then make no one make decisions for you. You say that it isn't from people who had their piece to say but it is and if you really love this guy then you wouldn't even think about what everyone thinks. Its just wrong to base your relationship based on this! Makes you look and sound like a snob...
2007-02-15 08:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if others can fill your mind with doubt then your love is really weak and not as strong as you make it sound. And who say only people who are equal in every way have a happy marriage. Do that guy a favor leave him, because even if you get married, you will still be influenced by other peoples opinion about your life, that you will definitely screw up both your lives.
2007-02-15 08:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. My friends like him ok, but they feel that I deserve better. Go with what makes you happy. I am. There's a different kind of intimacy that I have ever had before in this relationship and I am happy. If you are happy and he makes you happy, then your friends are wrong. Who knows what their motivation is, but don't kick yourself later. How long have you been in a relationship with him? If you have friends that would look down on someone you are with, then what kind of friends are they? Would you do that to them?
2007-02-15 07:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your feelings. Never let anyone tell you what is right or wrong for you. You can only decide that. If you are happy with him go for it.
But if you have doubts(not only because you are being influenced) maybe you should rethink it twice.
2007-02-15 07:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by *jA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to get married. Just give it more time, a couple of years, and then rethink the question.
It's better to wait and be more sure, than to guess and be wrong.
2007-02-15 07:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by redjetta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and think its time to get married then do it... its your life not everyone elses.. you dont have to listen to them...i got married in dec. and i love my husband alot and im very happy..
2007-02-15 07:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋