if maybe you and your man was going through, and you, out
of anger and selfish cheated, and he stay with you afterwards
years later and you know he started messing with someone
too. and recently you found out his cheating made another child
during the whole time we was still physical, my thing is i
know i was wrong but why did he stay? and he could,nt have
left that,s the worst thing you can do. until this day it is
painful and yes he is still in my life not physical anymore, but
because our child, now we get along for her,but do he deserve
forgiveness of bringing another child here? Any Advice
2007-02-15 07:28:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Unfortunately there are no simple answers. Does he want forgiveness? Does he want a relationship with you? What do you both want? These are questions that only the two of you can answer. What do you feel?
2007-02-15 07:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rahab 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you forgive someone that does not give you the license to cheat in the furure.
Love is built on trust and how can you be in a relationship with someone you dont trust?
Think of your child growing up in this enviroment, personally id make a clean break as i dont think the two of you will work things out but only you know what to do.
2007-02-15 07:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves forgiveness.
Your husband is an important part of your child's life. You are important to your child's life. You are by yourself very intelligent and in control. One of the skills of being in control is knowing when to give other responsibility and trust. It is easy to find mistrust if you look. It is also easy to find trust if you allow it.
2007-02-15 07:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by Stop_the_Klan@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen whats good for the goose is good for the gander when you cheated you opened the door to be hurt by showing him what you expected in the relationship its like demonstrating the ethics of the relat. for him it just took him a while to catch on
2007-02-15 07:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by kenallen75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that both of you cheated makes it clear that you both shouldnt be together
2007-02-15 07:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Akilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes to the question. to forgive is Davine. we all make mistakes,
you both did. maybe both of you like to make each other feel bad.
or perhaps i would like to believe he really loves you, but it hurts to still know. ???
2007-02-19 07:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I woun,t I can,t stand cheaters tell him to hit the road
2007-02-15 09:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by pattibcacl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to part ways. A clean break is what you need.
2007-02-15 07:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay together you two deserve each other, but I would be careful with STD's out there.
2007-02-15 07:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive him, but don't forget.
2007-02-15 07:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋