I think my best guy friend who i've known or years likes me but I like girls?

Question

I came out to him and took him to a gay club he experiemented but said it wasn't for him etc.I met my darlin girlfriend and she tried to set him up with guy friends, who apparently said 'he isn't gay he is pretendin'.

He never liked my girlfriend or me being with her. After I came out we were both out in 23 years of us being friends we never kissed but we kissed. I felt nothing to be honest but he kept sayin he was hot and I was making his head spin and he was confused.

He has told me in the past when he claimed to be gay that he loved this women my gut feeling as he looked at me was that he was talking about me.

He now says he is gay but I can't set him up with any guys, when I point out a nice guy he almost pretends to go yeah hot. He says after he went with a couple of guys he felt nothing. We are not as close anymore because he gets to creepy nowadays as we get older. I wish he was gay so he would leave me alone, honestly he remembers things i've said in the past too.

Answer 1

why is his sex life your problem? you have a girl and he needs to find his own way. As long as you let him he will continue to hang around deluding himself into believing he has a chance with you. it's time the two of you had a break. tell hm you on't want to see him for awhile. mean it and stick to it.

Answer 2

I suspect, though do not know, that your friend, gay, bi or straight, is primarily interested in YOU. He could be almost completely straight and have a consuming crush on you. My partner is bisexual, leaning toward straight, but we've been happily in a committed relationship for 15 years.

Don't turn on him. At the very least he loves and needs you.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn
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Answer 3

as jonny logan says kick him in the gee