i noticed that no matter what race the mother inlaw and sis inlaws and bacially the psycho inlaws r the same everywhere 90% the rest of the 10% might mind their own bees wax which is rare but seriously why do they turn against the girl after marriage..before marriage.1. they love the girl and must have her 2.the girls perfect nothing wrong with her from their view. 3. shes their princess!after marriage 1.shes a fraud 2, shes a low life ,3.has bad character, shes evil
2007-02-15 06:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh and if ur desi then u know how it is they say u did voodoo on them so they went blind and married u..
2007-02-15 06:10:55 · update #1
not to mention they looked for u they ran after u they kept coming to ur house even after u were avoiding it they said we must have this girl
2007-02-15 06:11:33 · update #2
first they fall for the appearance of the girl which forms a showcase for outsiders to see and admire.
Once she enters their house as the d-In-law and her external beauty does not match her ability to work,she puts added pressure on the existing ladies of the house or she proves her worth than she is perceived as competition.Either way she takes away the attention of the male members of the family away from them which they cannot bear to the extent that they try all their tricks to bring her down by any means,good or foul.
2007-02-15 07:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not a race or a sexist issue. It's probably due to the fact that before their Child's marriage or brother / sister's wedding they want the best possiable match for them. Then after the marriage they feel threatened and posissaive about their sibling or child. First your partner would only care about their mother and sister, now that they have you they feel insecure and feel that they may loose their child or sibling forever. Since they have been married their focus of attention has been around you. But what they forget is that when their daughter gets married they would want her to get the same treatment from her partner, you are getting from your partner to her.
Also it might be jealousy from the sister in law. since your talents are coming out one by one, every one is noticing you more, giving you importance, they must feel jealious. I went india my partner was here in uk. I saw my sis in law for the first time, I though thank god i don't live in this place she was a complete B*t*h, completely full of her self. So what i done was pull a straight face smile and be civil. Of course my partner loved his sister to bits, since she's the only one, but i can't stand her. she is so full of her self. Still for the hubby we must smile. and swear in our minds. She must of been jelious. Very nosy, in my face, interfareing in everything. but girls remember the key is to keep that smile on your face, atleast pretent to be friendly or civilised and never mention it to your partner. Trust me. Especially if he is asian. let him see it for him self. Just make sure they say things infront of him, every time they say something funny just give him the look and he will be bound to feel it, or say something to them or discuss it with you. Trust me he WILL bring it up. don't have sex with him until he does. That WILL get his attention.
2007-02-15 14:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sheetal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. The most and worst crimes against women is perpetuated by women. Have you ever seen women forming associations, parties or any social group. No way. They gossip about each other, fight and finally breakup.
The same thing applies in a household of daughter in laws, mother in laws and sister in laws. Women can never get along with women.
Q.E.D.
2007-02-15 14:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by fun_boyz 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they want you to be happy then when you are and get married they feel like "she the Devil" has taken away their son brother or whatever..
It is the same for everyone get used to it!
2007-02-15 14:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are right very correct it happens only in india?
so they would not change hearing my answer then why
talk for them ??? bacause as poison kills poison woman kills woman.
sweet dreams with no inlaws . tell them straight to work or neglect them . i think you are very soft hearted and honest person.
2007-02-19 12:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by harsh v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at first, I didn't like my brother's wife. But I spend time with her and got to know her better and now, she is my bestest friend.
2007-02-15 14:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right
2007-02-15 14:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by SHOBHIT J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way it is
2007-02-15 14:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋