2007-02-15 06:01:07 · 17 answers · asked by crashmails 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
arranged marriage will outlast love marriage
because love fizzels out
and tradition never fizzles out
two people brought together will have a family duty to fullfill from eitherside, therefore, mutual respecte will be topmost. gradually, love grows and the bond become tighter.
2007-02-15 06:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by MrudangM 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I depends on how you feel about it.. Some people want the fairytale wedding with the wonderful courtship before. others want no hassle with anything..
You can have an arranged marriage and still fall inlove with that person.. That is the true test of time. You here more about people divorcing after they have been dating for Years and living together even longer.. How often do you here the same thing about an arranged marriage..
Don't get me wrong I don't have a prefrence.. I just say this. either way make it work and you will have happiness together..
2007-02-15 14:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by kandhie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A love marriage is better. Obviously, based on divorce rate, those can go sour too, but while a couple in an arranged marriage can fall in love, this is (I believe) something that is mostly done in cultures where women are not seen as equals and are denied the right to divorce even they have grounds for it (unfaithfulness, abuse, etc). Just because two people stay married doesn't mean they are happy together.
2007-02-15 14:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both r a risk neither is better, if u love something can go wrong if ur arranged something can go wrong. marriage is A RISK a gamble either way love or arranged, if ur thinking arranged is better since the both families r envolved then ur wrong cuz after ur married the guys family starts to hate the girl and finds a million faults in her and wants to get rid of her so u tell me man!! love or arrange!! either = trouble
2007-02-15 14:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages have the benefit of mature adults looking at the things that are truly important. But outsiders can't judge chemistry very well.
Love without maturity results in a lot of people having sex/marriages with immature people that don't deserve to get laid in the first place.
2007-02-15 14:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better love to arrange than arrange to love
2007-02-15 14:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by renganathan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well differences bet 2
arrange love
1.parents will love u 1.may or may not love u
2.parents will help u when u r 2. " " '''''''''''''''''help u
3.u will not be responsible for 3. urself will be the reason
the damage (if)
4.u would like arrange marriage if u r loved by none
2007-02-16 01:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by anand k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both have their good sides
when in an arranged mariage when u get married with this person u wont expect that much if he/she cheats on u or dont have the best relationship but if married you will be with someone who you know will make you happy
2007-02-15 14:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Chequinah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriage is betterr. First marry then love ur partner.
one has to fall and feel the love. but not get the love marriage.
2007-02-15 16:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by abcdefg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange is better and life long. 1% chance for diverse. in love marriage ,diverse % is more than 50
2007-02-15 19:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋