2007-02-15 06:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Wandy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are as many reasons as there are married men who become addicted to brothels. The men may not even know why themselves.
For some men it is just a matter of habit. They received most of their sexual release from professionals before they were married and just continued after.
For some it is a way of hiding their really weird sex life from their wives. This is especially true in cultures where the woman is expected to be a virgin with no experience before the marriage. The guy may be into S&M or worse. He thought he could change but cannot.
For some it is a dissappointment in their wife's willingness to participate or her total obsession with the children. These are the guys who get lonely but do not want an emotional affair.
For others, it is an ego thing. The professional knows how to stroke his ego as well as other body parts. A paid professional is almost guarenteed to give satisfaction.
And then there are the guys who married for reasons other than love and now find out that the woman they married have no sexual desire for them.
There are also groups of men who do this as a social event. It means no more more to them than going to a ball game.
2007-02-15 06:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Some are BOY's that should have never been married in the first place.
Some are real men that have families and they are devoted to their families and they deal with being sexually rejected by their wives and this is there way of keeping the family together and coping. I have no excuses for a man being in a cat-house but I will say I feel more sorry for these men then I do the SELFISH thing they are married to.
2007-02-15 14:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men act out their fantasies at a brothel...ie: multiple girls, or their wives won't perform certain acts ie: anal intercourse, or they just enjoy different women. Other than that I have no idea. I like my money more than that.
2007-02-15 14:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by john h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for most things guys go there cause their wives won't do alot of the kinky stuff they do there or they don't want their wife to be that way and go to get their kicks.
2007-02-15 14:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the HBO series, Cat House?
http://www.hbo.com/docs/programs/cathouse2/index.html
2007-02-15 14:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do things there that most wives would never do for thier husbands
2007-02-15 14:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its all in the chase and not getting caught and of course pleasure
before they know it there in too deep and have no way of beating there addication
2007-02-16 07:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by searchingjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say "what you won't do another woman will",think about that...
2007-02-15 14:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like having sex with strange / new women...
2007-02-15 14:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋