me and my friend have been friends since sixth grade. Every time i try and help her with guys or other crazy cool things, she tells me to shut-up and to go away. like this time at a party she was with other people and i was dancing with the guys and i went and called her because the guys were calling her to dance, she told me to shut-up and she told me that i was liying about the guy calling her. I left her along and went back to dance.
what should i do or tell her?
Should i help her for the next time?
(Both of us are single and i really like if both or one of us have a boyfriend. Sometimes she acts like if she was a older women and she is one year younger then me I don't even act like that sometimes i act like a seventh or eighth year old)
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 05:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by Gloria (Madison) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if your friend is acting the way she is then you should just leave her alone. or confront her. tell her that she isnt acting fair to you by telling you to shut up when u want to help her. that your her friend and you only want her to be happy. tell her she is acting childish by telling you to go away. if she tells you to go away again then agree and walk away. take some time away from her and let her know by turning your back that you arent gonna take her rudeness. that you were only trying to help. next time dont help her and let her make her own mistakes and realize that your the better friend in the whole thing. if she says go away and shut up then walk away from her and just find another friend who will appreciate your help instead of pushing you away.
2007-02-15 06:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave her along an let her find a boyfriend on her on an from the sound of things she act like she have a problem telling you to shut up an go away let her be she will come around sometime or another if she was really a friend she would listen even if she dont go on with what your trying to help her with
2007-02-15 13:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by tykeriamala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept the fact that you're not friends anymore. You may have been close at one time, but she obviously no longer wants or respects your opinion. That can be hurtful, but you need to understand that you're both getting older, and she's not going to always be the same girl you met when you were 11 or 12. Just suck it up and move on, and let her take care of herself and stand or fall on her own merits. That doesn't mean that you've stopped caring what happens, but it's no longer your responsibility to watch out for her. Perhaps, once you stop being there, she'll realize she misses you and come around. But you can't be missed until you go away.
Good luck.
2007-02-15 13:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, you need to NOt act like a 7 or 8 year old. maybe she just is more focused on school rather than BOYS right now. I wouldnt force a relationship on her because
1. boys that age are stupid
2. she might have really low self esteem and you are pushing the envelope
3. she is more mature than you and doesnt think she has to Force something good to happen
2007-02-15 14:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants to do this on her own, you should not be concerned about it. This should not get in the way of your friendship either. If she refuses help, its ok. Some of us want to do things on our own. If you want a boyfriend go get one, you need to take care of yourself before others.
2007-02-15 13:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Corey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call someone who treated me like that a friend
Get rid of her and find a "real" friend...someone who cares about you as a person and treats you with respect.
be cool...
2007-02-15 13:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about this problem.
If that doesn't resolve it then find a new friend. Friends don't make you feel or look small.
2007-02-15 13:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dream Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave boys out of your friendship-if a boy says to tell her something for them-tell them to tell her yourself please. and the most important friend to have is Jesus =John chapter 3 asking him to forgive our sins and become our friend-John chapter 3
2007-02-15 13:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and make a new friend.
2007-02-15 13:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to help her. She'll do what ever she wants to do anyway, so why make her angry at you?
2007-02-15 13:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋