sex before married ?

Answer 1

You absolutely have to. So many people are incompatible in bed, no matter how much they love each other.... you really need to find out first. Anyone who is saying that sex is only special after marriage or with one person is full of baloney... sex is awesome, but only with someone with whom you are compatible in bed... So many marriages are RUINED by bad sex lives.

Answer 2

Yes. Waiting until you get married in no way changes the meaning of the sex. You are either in love or you are not. Sex without love is merely healthy exercise. Both are great, just different. And that little piece of paper doesn't mean the sex will be better. If it does (like one or two said above) it's because you had some kind of mental block/guilt thing going on, and that's sad to put such a thing upon someone for the most basic of human functions.

Remember, as Voltaire said "God created sex. Priests created marriage." And we all know the priests he was referring to were supposed to be celibate. So you can imagine how screwed-up their ideas of sex were.

Answer 3

Lots of arguements for an against but it comes down to what you feel right. Certainly with so many people just having sex for the fun of it much sorry has been brought to the world and then there's AIDS! The pleasure can be great but if you are not choosy and have many sexual partners (not saying that is your intention) is it really worth the risks?

Answer 4

That's up to u!
If its not clash with your society, and if its not a problem with you or your partner and if you both dont have any problem with if you two break up and getting married another person, I think its not a problem.

But its waiting till marry is too good as the honeymoon will be real experiance then. Otherwise it'll be just another day!

Think about!

Answer 5

well that dpends on a few things ,1 the way u were brought up or some religons are u have u b a virgin before marriged
but in my book's if you both feel comftable then theres no problem ,but dont be forced or do it just because your freind has it isnt a scoreing points if u love each other and think it's the time then let it be i hope this helps you and i hope you enjoy it either way.

Answer 6

My husband (boyfriend) at the time had sex before we married and it was good. But after we married and we had our rings our our fingers the sex became lovemaking and it was way better. I say if you plan on marrying him have sex. But if you don't plan on marrying him don't. The first time is alwas the best.

Answer 7

I think you will either get the religious answer for people on here who say wait, its more special that way... but how do they know????? Sex is fun if you make sure its safe!!!! Its a scientific fact that the clitoris has no other use apart from pleasure.... so get pleasure. How old are you by the way? lol

Answer 8

I think its fine as long as you arent sleeping with different people every night of the week.

I think the person you sleep with is someone that you can imagine being with forever whether you marry or not. It should be with someone who respects and loves you back

Answer 9

Depends on your personal beliefs. If marriage is v. important to you, then you would probably wait. Personally, I think if you love a person it doesnt matter whether ur married or not.

Answer 10

sex b4 marriage?now a days..couples r hving sex even b4 marriage but ure lucky if u find a person who is still a virgin..but people hve differences some pip wnts still a virgin and some pip thinks it doesnt matter wether virgin or not..like i said we all hve differences,the way we think,say,etc..hope this helps a bit.