It was Valentine's Day Night.
Are you married and passionately in love with your spouse, your spouse who says they love you, and YET they have no interest in expressing that love physically through sex? Do they reject your desires, do they act like sex is a chore and a scourge to be avoided at all cost? Is everything else o.k. in the marriage except for this one thing? Did it leave you crushed on Valentines day to be without physical intimacy? Did it hurt extra just because it was Valentine’s day?
2007-02-15 05:37:38 · 26 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too bad my husband isn't on Yahoo! Answers... he would've answered this in a second! HA!
I don't reject his desires nor do I act like sex is a chore but if I don't want it... BACK OFF! What's the point in having sex if one partner isn't into it? What fun is that?
2007-02-15 05:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by princess526_2001 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband came home from his deployment in Iraq at the end of January. Since the 3rd night at home, he hasn't touched me so much to hold my hand. He says he needs time to adjust to everything. While he was deployed, I gave birth to our 1st daughter and we have two boys, as well. He now says he feels I don't need him. He says I seem so independent now and that makes him feel helpless. I try to understand his needs, desperately, but on Valentine's day, he didn't even get me a card and that hurt.He doesn't feel counseling is an option, but at this rate, it's hurting our marriage tremendously.
2007-02-22 17:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by monicastocker74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! He felt a sleep first then me and the kids, it hurt because I had bought something specially for that night and plus it was Valentines day. He gave me ring but still. I could have woken him up, but I felt offended so didn't wake him up. When ever I want it, I wake him up and we'll do it. But on Valentines day him falling asleep it rally got in my nerves.
2007-02-22 14:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by mexlavanderlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't neglected, I just had a major head cold. I couldn't breathe at all out of my nose, so...well, some things just aren't possible with that. I got up early this morning, took some meds and made up for last night about six this morning. Well, from six to seven, at least. ;)
My DH is having a GREAT day at work - he called twice to make sure I knew about it, lol. woot!
But yeah, it did bother me that we weren't umm...active yesterday, I just felt like crap - thank gawd for Alka-Seltzer and Zycam!
2007-02-15 05:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last night - Yes. But this morning, well let's just say we may have taken care of several future Valentine's days...
2007-02-15 05:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip and get a life !!!! Marriage shouldn't be based on having SEX. One should feel secure with in themselves and not base a marriage relationship around SEX. Some marriages can be fulfilled just by communication, companionship, love, trust and security. SEX is a bonus. If it happens it happens.
2007-02-22 22:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
appears like my husband,he swears he loves me he seems after me and our little ones.however the intercourse is nearly a chore perchance 3 or 4 cases a month in a sturdy month.He slightly bathes and places on new kenneth cole cologne i offered him,yuck.i think of he's barely married to me via fact he's been married thrice in the previous and is 40 and doesnt p.c. to be on my own.
2016-10-02 04:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was our first Valentines day as a married couple and we had made sure that we showed each other how we felt.YEAH!!!
2007-02-15 05:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I showed my husband how much I loved him over and over and over again. It was a very good night! So good, in fact, that I was too tired and sore for morning sex!
2007-02-15 05:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurt A little more than normal, to bad there is all ways a reason not to do it, rather than a reason to do it.
2007-02-22 14:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by edge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋