2007-02-15 05:33:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She said she was pregnant and she was'nt and then hid her periods and then said that she was 5 months and had a miscarriage but never went to the doctor. She also said that she had a sonogram at 3 months and they said that it was a boy but yet there are no pictures. She also said that she left work the other night to go to the doctor. She did'nt and she was fine when she took me and a co-worker home.
2007-02-15 05:47:20 · update #1
Well, unless it directly affects you, I would let it go. There are so many "holes" in this story that it's obvious that she lied about it all. Even the most advanced sonographer couldn't possibly tell the sex of a baby at 12 weeks (3 months). If she was 5 months along, then it's not called a miscarriage, it's called premature labor and still birth. She would have had to of gone to the Dr (more like hospital) for this. She would have delivered a 20 week baby. I don't see how that she could blame anyone for this. Sometimes things happen that no one can even begin to understand.
2007-02-15 05:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless that friend punched and kicked her in the stomach and then pushed her down a flight of stairs, I can't see how her miscarriage is someone else's fault. I'm not saying it is her fault by any means... miscarriage is natural and happens more often than you'd think (I know a woman who has had 8 miscarriages).
Although, now that I sort of think more about your question, I have to wonder how a person who lied about being pregnant can even have a miscarriage???
2007-02-15 05:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for a fact that it was a lie. And can you prove it? Do you know the reason she would do this to another person, These are questions you need to ask yourself before you get involve in a hornets nest. Also miscarriage? Is there a doctors report on this? Sometime ladys are late and jump to conclussions. A month goes by and then they are back to normal. And depending on how far along she would have been, if she was expecting,a DnC would have been done.
2007-02-15 05:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond Dolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details are needed to answer this but here is what I'm assuming:
She lied and said she wasn't pg but her friend talked her in to doing something that could possibly be seen as a cause for the miscarriage. Now she is blaming her friend.
If I'm right in my assumption then the girl has no one to blame and it is not worth losing the friendship. Many miscarriages happen on their own due to genetic errors in the fetus and it probably would have happened anyway.
Wel, I hope I've helped and the friendship can continue.
2007-02-15 05:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crystal answered this question very well. She has to be lying about the whole pregnancy in the first place because you cannot tell the genger of a baby at 3 months. Also you said facts stating that she lied about things, why she would lie about it is just stupid and to blame someone else for it is completely ridiculous espically when she was never pregnant. But, I don't really see a point of you getting involved unless the friend is yours and he doesnt know about this, you should tell him and both stop talking to her, she is obviously immature.
2007-02-15 06:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by xcathy23x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know for a fact she wasn't pregnant, I would probably tell the friend she is trying to blame for a miscarriage, but I'm not sure how you could prove she was lying.
2007-02-15 05:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are the friend being blamed for the miscarriage, i would say you need to have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. it's never anyone's fault. sometimes the egg just doesn't develop or the baby wouldn't survive or has an abnormality, these things happen.
if you are not, you should stay out of it.
2007-02-15 05:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Hendrixj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you may desire to confront her? Your in trouble-free terms clarification for no longer believing her is by using the fact she has gotten pregnant in the previous and presently miscarried back in the previous getting pregnant in february? I truthfully have had quite a few miscarriages too (via fact I truthfully have PCOS) yet that doesnt propose I lied approximately being pregnant and that i'd be quite indignant and harm if somebody outright accused me of that, exceedingly if it grew to become into my "chum" So what occurs once you confront her approximately it and youre incorrect? the type you going to sense then? whether for some extraordinary reason you have been amazing, what difference does it make? Its in trouble-free terms going to reason issues and he or she is going to get indignant and protecting and you may basically depart properly adequate on my own. playstation to declare she is definitely mendacity via fact she wasnt in a lot of discomfort is ridiculous. you're no longer medical doctors and dont have any theory what reason could be for that. My final miscarriage i grew to become into 4 and a a million/2 months pregnant (your chum would have been 4 months) and as quickly as I miscarried I had long gone to the well-being facility without cramps yet bleeding in trouble-free terms a sprint and had to confirm each thing grew to become into ok. They took my blood and that i waited interior the er for hours til they got here and took it back and my hcg grew to become into declining (miscarriage) i grew to become into booked to return back two times the fllowing day and function it chekced it back. as quickly as I got here back comparable difficulty..nonetheless dropping stil bleeding slightly. next morning booked in for D&C (the place they eliminate infant, blood, tissue, each thing out of your uterus) and had no discomfort so as that may no longer a demonstration. of course your chum would comprehend that a common miscarriage comes with discomfort. If she grew to become into mendacity why would she say she feels no discomfort or little discomfort understanding that its no longer the norm with miscarriages.
2016-10-02 04:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand how she can blame anyone for a miscarriage. Miscarriages happen for a number of reasons. What are you hoping to be able to do? It's not your issue, it's between her and the friend she is blaming.
2007-02-15 05:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by imcalledlisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she lied about being pregnant in the first place, she obviously couldn't have had a miscarriage.
Call her out on it and destroy her credibility. I can't stand people who lie about crap like that.
2007-02-15 05:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋