i'm so confused if i am bi or not..?

Question

ok so here's the story..i've always loved guys. but there's this one girl...she's one of my best friends that i can never seem to get out of my mind, i always denied that it was nothing and that i wasn't bi..i really dont like the thought of being bi, i dont' find boobs attracting or a vag**a, i like penis' haha as weird as that sounds..i'm saying i've never liked a girl..and i don't think i'd be able to admit it and most of my life i've been a tomboy and once..my brother in law who isn't even involved in my life or knew if i ever went out with guys thought i was a lesbian..i thought it was so rude he'd ask...it really pissed me off..cause i've went out with so many guys but what does he expect me to do, at that time i wasn't allowed to date people so i wouldn't tell them...ugh..this girl is literally the only girl i can not get out of my mind..and i've thought of things but...i hate it it doesn't make me happy. it's like those thoughts u have for the opposite sex.

it's like liking the opposite sex, u can't get them out of ur head. ugh idk....it's only her. i'm not attracted to the opposite sex at all, maybe i'm just confused?

Answer 1

You could be just confused or actually bisexual. Not every woman is attracted to every other woman. Just follow your heart and desires.

Answer 2

Sounds like infactuation. I used to have thoughts of my ex best friend like that. I used to want to try and make a move on her, but I was afraid she would freak out. All you have to do is sit her down, discuss your feelings about her and see what she says. If she gets freaked out, then you know that she probably isn't into chicks. Good luck!

Answer 3

its okay to have a girl crush..... everyone does.....