She thinks that the only reason people have friends is for fun and games! She keeps telling me that im boring, well i cant be fun all the time you know. Makes me mad cos she always expects me to be fun all the time and shes not so fun herself, with her sister shes crazy but guess what im not her sister am i?
I need to let her know that friends are for other things as well not just for laughs, i mean having fun is great but you cant have fun all the time can you?
What should i do so i dont lose her?
2007-02-15 04:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds selfish, why dont you find a proper friend who will be there for you through the good times and the not so good, thats what true friends are for.
2007-02-15 05:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Next time she tells you this ask her if she really and truly thinks that's what friends are for? Having fun together or in a crowd is all part of friendship but a good friend is also to share confidences with, be there for you when something goes wrong in your life and stand by you if a reason occurs. That's the serious bit but they are also there to laugh with you, chat endlessly on the phone, go shopping,swap clothes etc, etc, etc. Your friend only thinks she can have fun and games all the time. When there is a 'hiccup' in her life as in boy trouble, home trouble she will realise what a good friend really is. She probably is uaware of it but is showing her immaturity so just give her time and she will probably grow up!
2007-02-15 13:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chill out....just tell her that sometimes you would like her to be serious, there will come a point when one of you may have a problem and may need to share it....it's great having fun friends, but sometimes it takes up too much energy and yes we all need to chill...tell her that you love her as your friend and do not want to lose her because of something so small...but tell her what you just wrote in here and see what her reaction will be....but don't stop having fun just because she thinks mates are just for fun....she's right, they are, but you must tell her whats going on in your mind...talk to her nicely about it and stay friends....
2007-02-15 13:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if your boring she should accept you for who you are.
Life get's serious sometimes and it's impossiable to keep a smile on our face.If her life is full of roses then good on bloody her but you cannot be like her all the time.And that's how you should drop it
2007-02-19 12:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sash# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight with her and tell her what you've just said.
There's no harm in stating the obvious.
2007-02-15 16:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by emmeheff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up
2007-02-15 13:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋