What does this dream mean?

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What does this dream mean?
Question Details: I had this dream last night where I was supposed to get married. (In reality, I'm single) In the dream I never saw the person I was going to marry..so i do not know who this person is. (this dream involves two exes..we'll call them Ex A and Ex B) Okay. I kept seeing Ex A's mother there at the church. And I kept seeing Ex B walking around the church....not the sanctuary wehre I was gettting married. It was like he didnt want to see the wedding. While I was standing at the door getting ready to walk in I was crying telling my mom that I didnt want to get married..i kept telling her over and over again. It was like she didnt' hear me. My aunt asked me if I wanted her to go tell the guests that the wedding was off. I said yes and i ran out crying hysterically. Again, I saw Ex. B. So the wedding was off and my aunt told me people were angry with me, and he(the man i was supposed to marry) is very upset. For some reason Ex.A kept coming to mind throughout the whole dream. What's it mean?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I play an mmo. each and every of the time. called Eudemons on-line. maximum of my desires are depending off of that pastime. I dream i'm taking area in the game. what's unhappy is human beings placed way too a lot into the desires they have. i'm 21 years old. even as i replaced into round 13 or so, I had a dream that made me experience even as i replaced into 33 i might want to die in a automobile crash. no human being else in contact, lifeted up 4x4. T highway. many years off, yet i do not imagine that what I dreamed then, will come real. inspite of if I had an identical dream a million time each and every 6 years. issues change. you regulate. that's no longer your desires that make your destiny. it is your destiny that'll make your desires. do not concentration on a dream you've. If something, they're more desirable of a symbol of something that has happend, or not in any respect will ensue. A caution, something that could help you stay away from a disaster you on your lifestyles. stay the lifestyles you've, the way you want, and not in any respect by technique of any desires.

Answer 3

II find this dream to be quite touchy, quite mysterious in many respects. But I do not like reductionist theories about dreams. I don't think it is that easy to reduce this dream to this or that explanation. Therefore I think it is a real warning dream.

Personally I think there are two extreme poles to all of us. There is an inner pole that seeks integration and there is an outer pole that also seeks integration. There is an inner marriage and an outer marriage. What I feel strongly about is that people often get married before they are ready. The marriage then becomes a struggle. So when there is pressure to get married before you are integrated on the inside it can make you extremely anxious. The dream suggests to me that you are uncertain about both forms of 'marriage' right now. You are not ready to marry outwardly and you are not yet accepting of the inner marriage where you would strengthen your own male side. The inner marriage is mysterious and so the society is not patient with it. But if you would strengthen the male side of your personality it will help you to understand males better as well as hold your own with them. You could then preserve your independence. For the moment this dreams suggests that you have not lost your independence. But you also have not gained the strength that comes from a strong relationship between male and female either. You haven't gained this outwardly, nor inwardly. Don't give up. Just learn to resist false social pressure. Do not seek false approval from others. Look again with fresh eyes at all relationships. You can't go back to the past and you cannot rush the future. The marriage partner is unknown - both within and without. So wait. He will show up. In the meantime I think it is good to strengthen your own masculine side. Your female side cannot be tied down yet. So integrate yourself first.

I am impressed by this dream, however, and need to think about it longer. My instinct says: wait, be independent, don't rush. Strenghten yourself. Resist outside pressure. On the other hand, I think you should allow an inner marriage to take place. I don't think you should try to run from that. Don't try to escape the fear of the mystery of inner integration. It's subtle but completely fundamental.

Tricky dream. Thanks for posting it. My mind keeps coming back to the unknown person you were supposed to marry. That's where the secret is. How to face the unknown without running from it? How to make the right decision in face of the unknown? How to make your feelings reliable. A strong integration of male and female helps to balance feelings so they make good judgements. Then you are not leaning on the judgements of others.

B. Lyons

Answer 4

To understand a dream, it’s helpful to keep in mind why and how we dream. When we sleep, the body and perception systems are shut down, but the brain remains active. The brain thinks about what has recently been most active during waking hours—experiences, thoughts and feelings accessed recently whether consciously or not. The brain is still active, so it works on this content, but not in a familiar, rational way. During sleep, this material is not related using input from the external real world, but rather by the brain connections already established in the cortex. So the story connectedness isn’t like everyday experience, but rather a strange, circuitous flow from one image to the next. So dreams aren’t magical messages to guide our life, but dream imagery is taken from everyday experiences, thoughts and feelings that matter most to us during our waking life. So it’s a mistake to apply standard symbol definitions, such as Freudian meanings or standard “dreammoods” symbols. All you need to do is think about what kind of imagery it is and how it relates to your daily life.

The dream is about your fear of getting married or the desire to avoid marriage at this time. Because your Ex's are in the dream, they probably have something to do with this feeling...that you can have an intimate relationship, but it can break up. So marriage is a risk. None of the imagery you describe suggests that you should get back with any of your ex's. Perhaps thoughts of this nature have been in your mind a lot lately, consciously or unconsciously, and it carried over into the dream image association. The theme is a normal, healthy questioning of love, intimate relationships, and marriage...hopefully leading to good conclusions for your future decisions.

Answer 5

This is from a dream dictionary at myjellybean.com
you can interpret it from the main words.....


Wedding
To dream of attending a wedding, or a wedding reception, symbolizes a new beginning for you. This dream may also reflect your anxieties about commitment and independence. If you dream your friend is getting married, you may be worried she is leaving you behind. If you have a dream that your friend marries your boyfriend, you may have noticed some flirting between them in real life. If you were getting married in the dream, this could be straight-forward wishing, representing your strong romantic interest towards someone in your waking life. Wedding dreams can also mean you have learned to be comfortable with diverse parts of your self. Also see "Bride", "Groom", "Wedding Cake", "Wedding Dress" and "Wedding Ring"


Mother
Mothers in dreams usually invoke powerful emotions. If you are dreaming about your mother, you may be addressing some real-life issues or concerns about your mother in your dream, or your dream may be based on a valuable memory. If you dream of being a mother (and you don't have children in real life), this foretells a surprising turn of events concerning a cause you believed to be lost. The general image of "mother" in a dream may symbolize a variety of feelings and ideas: caring, nurturing, love, acceptance, hard work, sacrifice, etc. The mother in your dream could also represent that force, or current, inside of you that nudges you on and inspires you. It is your intuition and the knowledge that lives deep within your soul.


Ex-Boyfriend
To dream about your ex-boyfriend suggests that something or someone in your current life is bringing out similar feelings to the ones you felt in the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learned from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do not repeat the same mistake. If you dreamed of getting back together with an ex, see "Reuniting."

Answer 6

the marriage may mean thoughts about ex a that u are trying to ignore. or it may be the feeling that someone is forcing u into something fishy. this is my opinion. also check this: http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/w2.htm and go to the "wedding" word. on that site there is also a "common dreams" section, it may have something similar to ur dream.

Answer 7

You are living your life for other people - trying to live up to other people's expectations rather than following your own desires. It's common.

Answer 8

idk it sounds like you might get back together with Ex A while Ex B is confused or worried. Or soething in your life is going to happen where you are going to hurt/ annoy someone you care about.

Answer 9

That both of your ExA and B are getting married. But not to you

Answer 10

That you are really confused.