My wife like sex around once a week, and I like it several times a week. She has said that it is fine to have sex with other women.
My wife is beautiful, but not particularly my type. I enjoy having sex a variety of women, and I find it satisfying. So far, no problems.
How many people think this is a good set up? Any ideas?
2007-02-15 04:42:33 · 33 answers · asked by Santa Barbara 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you at least using protection? Does your wife ever want to watch? Just curious.
2007-02-15 04:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Soooo why bother getting married at all then. Just for the presents I guess? I think it's a stupid idea. If you're married to someone you should be fully commited to that person. Obviously the vows you and your wife took mean nothing to either of you perhaps the two of you should consider a divorce. It sounds like you might both be happier single. What ever you decide, make sure you wrap your willy!
2007-02-15 04:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine! Its you two who matter in this arrangements and no body else's business!
She has probably gave you a green light because she sensibly realised that since she cannot meet your urges, its better to take the only remaining option which will continue also to maintain your marriage.
You say, though, that she is not your type. Why did you marry her in the first place?!! Were you forced to?
All I can say, be careful.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 04:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although she says it's okay it will probably cause problems down the line. Women are jealous by nature. Best of luck. I say take matters so to speak into your own hands and be happy with once a week..most men don't even get that much.
2007-02-15 04:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad! So So Bad!!! I know you think its good now but what about later on. What happens when she wants other men? What happens when a woman will not leave you alone? What will happen when a man will not leave her alone? Do you own a house? You will not anymore after she leaves your *** for cheating! She gets 2/3 of everything brother! What are you going to say? "But judge she said it was ok to be other women!"
2007-02-15 04:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Know It All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you get married? if she is not your type? I think you ot the best end of the deal with the info given but as someone else said your wife might be playing away as well if you are both ok with this thats up to you
2007-02-15 04:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez! Hope you are enjoying life on earth because it's gonna be hot in hell! Eeek!
I'd say make good friends with your hand on the days she doesn't want some. Seriously consider your relationship if she is willing to let you go have an affair and why on earth did you marry her if she's not your type??
2007-02-15 04:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great....you are both honest about your feelings and dealing with it.
There a LOT of like minded couples out there. To meet them try going t some of the swinger websites like Adult Friend Finder or SwingLifestyle.
2007-02-15 05:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by reddemonwi55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a good idea she can always use that against you but why did you even get married if you are just gonna cheat and you will probably get an std and give it to your wife, you give men a bad name its loser like you that women hate.
2007-02-15 04:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a very serious step..and for y'all to just defile the marriage bed this way is disgraceful. If you don't love your wife do her the favor and leave her. don't you know of the deadly disease out there.
2007-02-15 04:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by missylea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋