my boy friend really wants me to have sex but i really am not ready and ive tried to explain it to him that i dont want to and when he most recently pressured me i told him i had my period and he was like we can still do it.....but wouldnt that be gross?
2007-02-15 04:40:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
hes kind of getting suspicious becuase i have "had my period" for like weeks now....i really havent ive just told him that so he will stop pressuring me
2007-02-15 04:48:55 · update #1
i wouldnt have sex or a realtionship with a much older man. i just find them attractive
2007-02-15 04:52:50 · update #2
Yea, that'd be a little gross on his part. You probably wouldn't enhoy it as much as if you were NOT on your period either. And if he's pressuring you, you need to tell him how you feel about it early... give him an inch and he'll go a mile. Anyway if you DO want to have sex with him while youre on your period just try oral or other ways such as the "-jobs"
2007-02-15 09:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Future Marine Sniper 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with sex during your period.My firstl thought though is that you said on your last question you were 14 and you were in to guys age 30-50 in which case you shouldn't have sex at all. Period or not.
If not having sex with a guy over 30, then do or don't do it during your period, but don't do it if you're not ready, you're only 14. There's plenty of time. If you're worried he's 'suspicious' then you need to be the mature one and discuss it properly. If he respects you, he'll wait.
2007-02-15 04:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly, at the same time as a lady is having her era, her vagina is more beneficial engorged than known. And menstrual fluid resources sufficient lubrication. sex throughout the time of a lady's era would experience very diverse than at the same time as she wasn't having her era. and there is not any longer some thing gross about it both. a lady's era is a common organic and organic function. at the same time as it might properly be a messier, there are continually approaches of coping with it, inclusive of utilising towels or having sex in the bathe.
2016-12-04 05:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I've done it. We put a towel down underneath her. A dark towel. It takes her a little longer to orgasm when on her period. Might want to avoid like the first day, but a few days in, m'eh. Yes, there was a bit of flow on my penis afterwards, but it was well worth it.
I read on a forum about a couple women who said they preferred to have anal during their period, since it was less messy. Sadly, I was allready married so I was unable to propose to them.
Basically, its not that big a deal, though for your first time, it might not be ideal :p I'm not going to get into your being ready or not, just tried to answer your question about period-sex for future reference.
2007-02-15 04:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In the middle of a woman's cycle is when she reaches a very sexual peak...so no...I don't think it's gross at all. Don 't let your man pressure you though, that's not cool. Have you tried pleasing him without actual penetration? Will he settle for that? Good Luck!
2007-02-15 04:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kamaria 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did one time, and yeah its a little gross and messy, but if you put some towels down and take a shower right after it should be no problem. It makes a lot of squishy sounds though.
2007-02-15 05:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Art Vandalay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats gross but thats only my opinion. you may think it IS gross and thats perfectly fine. Yes I have had sex while my girlfriend was on her period and we both liked it but you may not. if you are not ready to have sex all you have to do is put your foot down and say no. You arent ready and thats it. You decide if you have sex not him. Just say you dont want to because your on your period and you think it would be nasty.
2007-02-15 04:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
first of all this guy isn't worth it if he's pressuring you, he should respect you. yes you can have sex on your period and if its your first time it might not be as sore cause its more lubricated. don't do anything you don't want to do ! x
2007-02-15 07:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Madness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you probably want to save for your husband or if you and this guy are really, really serious. You have got to be really into it and fully comfortable. It depends on your body how messy it will (or will not) be. I have done that with my husband and it isn't terrible.
2007-02-15 04:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've done it with a few women while they're on their periods, from a guys standpoint, we don't worry about a bit of blood.
2007-02-15 04:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mitch H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋