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Question

My ex and I have a duaghter together which i take care of. We have an agreement that he is supposed to pay me 100.00 every two weeks for child supoort. He has not been paying all off it and is behind 155. I've asked him to sign a piece of paper saying that he would pay 100 every two weeks and he could have her every other week end. He won't do that because of his work he can't get every other weekend off. I made a new agreement up that he pays 100 every two weeks and he can have her one day every week. This way it will work with his schedule at work. He said he has to think about it.
I don't know what else to do other than to go to child enforcement, I just don't want too because I know they would take a lot more than 100. every two weeks from him and I know he needs money too live on. What should I do?

I'm afraid to take him to court I don't want him to get custody of her. I don't work because she is not old enough to go to school so I home school her right now. My partner works and makes enough money to supoort us.

Answer 1

You sound too nice. He should remember that child support is for his child. You can try telling him that if he does not work it out with you that you will have no choice but to take legal steps. I wish you luck and success.

Answer 2

I would look up how much the courts would charge him in child support. You should also take into account how much he makes, he may just not have any money. On the other hand he may be squandering it. Just find the exact number and let him know that its in his best interests.

Answer 3

You need to get a court judgement for child support. Don't pity him. He owes the child his financial support.

Answer 4

talk to him about what you are about to do,if he is smart he will agree with not involving the courts.