my friend liked this guy since the day she met him, they both in school and text each other everyday, he told her he loves her and so she thought that he liked her to... yesterday (valentines day) she didnt want to wait for him anymore and asked him if he likes her, and he said that they only friends and he dont like her in that way! it was my friends first love and she is broken apart by this!!! how can i help her?? what can i say to her to make her feel extra special??
2007-02-15 04:25:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her she is lovely because she has the capacity to love and there will be a guy out there who can match and deserve her love.
Also if they were or are meant to be they will be and if not then love is around maybe not the next corner but it's out there and it will find her because she deserves it!
Hope this helps!
2007-02-15 04:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Gem of Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise that you've a what I call a Gilmore females nighttime. What I advise is have a females nighttime...get a ton of convenience nutrition {pizza, cookie dough, a lot of sweet,popcorn} Get some video clips of all sorts of genres and hear her and only be there for her in her time of want. Then if she is up for it pass to the mall and get pedicures and all of that relaxing woman stuff!!! this received't make her ignore it thoroughly...even though it is going to likely help her coronary heart heal somewhat, to draw close that she has you and that you're continuously there for her.
2016-11-03 13:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions are the best cure.
Take her out shopping and drown her in compliments, then go out for lunch and check out the hot waiters, keep going on things that won't let her think about it.
In between all these fantastic days, you want to tell her that its better to know then live life without knowing. She was most likely not talking to other guys while she liked him so you should get her on the single wagon again. And the next time you see that guy you make sure to tell him what he did. Leading a girl on is horrible....Good luck!
2007-02-15 04:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!* Well, we all know there's no better medecine for a broken heart than time. I'm afaraid that's all they have for that. Just be there for your pal, she's hurting right now, and you know it's hard whan it's your first love. There's nothing you can do to take away that pain in her heart, but being there might re-assure her that this guy isn't everything,,,,she's got a best friend like you. Good luck.
2007-02-15 04:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rebekkah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will feel hurt for awhile, not much u can do but just be there for her, listen to her, breakups are hard on people, hurts the ego, he is probably seeing someone else, and there isn't that much one can do because it does take time to get past a broken heart. doesn't make us feel good when the object of our love doesn't love us back, she just has to accept it for what it is, and move on, and find love with someone else.
2007-02-15 04:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she doesn't need a man to have love, She can love her family, her friends, and most of all herself. You can't have a first love without love on the otherside. Pick yourself up by your heels and love again but this time someone who shares your feelings.
2007-02-15 04:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her to move on. there is other fish in sea she will find da right guy some day who will give her all da love she deserves life is too short to be stuck on one love who is probably not da right guy for her she needs to accept rejection and move on. in life stuff like dat happens alot so she needs to be alot stronger cause dats life!!!
2007-02-15 04:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww! i noe how this works... well first of all if he told herhe loves her thats kinda leadin her on.... jus tell her that he doesnt deserve her if hes gonna be that way..... also its not really a love... like i said i noe how this works and u noe wat? sometimes they jus say that! that happened 2 me and he was a good friend and i found out by some of his close friends that he had said he liked me! tell her how nice and kind she is.... do somethin nice 4 her...
2007-02-15 04:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats gonna be really difficult.. hmmm just say shes worth more than having such a dumbo like him haha
2007-02-15 04:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by ILOVEU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your hand in her lap and look into her eyes. She'll either be into it and you'll cheer her up right away, or you'll freak her out. either way, she'll forget about him for a while.
2007-02-15 04:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋