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2007-02-15 04:25:41 · 30 answers · asked by deepika 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Not really. It's hard work. But if you love someone and want to be married, it's worth it.

2007-02-15 04:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0 0

It's not easy. Good marriages don't happen they are earned! This doesn't mean that it is all suffering- because it is not- it is a joy! Remember that you are working for a common goal. Forgive quickly, don't get offended easily, and treat each other the way you would like to be treated. Divorce should not be an option. You need to go into marriage with the belief that is is for life, better or worse, and be willing to deal with any issue that comes up as a team.

2007-02-15 04:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nothing worthwhile is always easy.

Now, if you're a fairly easy-going person and you marry someone very similar, that's a good start, but there are other essential things for a happy marriage:

- compromise; so that you can work out your problems without a lot of emotional trauma.

- sympathy and forgiveness; so that when you do make a mistake (and you will), you can forgive each other and move forward.

2007-02-15 07:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Is single life easy to live?? That is a crazy question. No life is ever EASY 100% of the time.

2007-02-15 05:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by T C 3 · 0 0

Is single life easy to live?

I think you need to be at a point where you have managed to live life as a single happily before you take on more responsibility and greater challenges. If you're not happy being single, marriage is going to be a real rollercoaster.

2007-02-15 04:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

HELL NO! Don't let any fool tell you that it is, marriage has it's ups and downs. IT IS VERY HARD WORK and COMMUNICATION, AND UNDERSTANDING, COMPROMISING, AND A LOT MORE. Are you married or anticipating marriage? I heard it doesn't get easy until you hit the 7 year mark. (lol) I'm only knocking on 2 years. It is truely something that has to be pre-destined by God, because without him it is impossible. It's truely for grown-ups and not children.

2007-02-15 04:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0 0

Marriage is definitely not an easy endeavor. While it may seem to be constantly rosy and happy, be forewarned, that it won't always be that way. This is not to say that there aren't wonderful times and that it is a truly fufilling lifestyle, be ready to work hard at it. You need a partner who approaches it (marriage) with the same willingness to work to keep it together as you do. Trust me, if one of you gives up, it's much, much harder to keep your marriage together. Remember to learn how to communicate well and to fight fair as these are two extremely important tools that you will need to keep it together. Keep those ideas in mind, and you will end up in a relationship where you and your partner have grown together to form a healthy, honest relationship.

2007-02-15 04:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by chopperdave58 1 · 0 0

Sometimes yes, sometimes, no. I've been married 26 years and I think the thing that will make you the most happy in marriage is if you accept your spouse for what he/she is without trying to change them and they need to do the same for you. Believe me, this will save a lot of trouble and make marriage so much happier. If they do something that drives you crazy, suck it up and focus on their good points.

2007-02-15 04:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No, it's not easy, it's hard work. It takes alot of hard work, love, dedication, trust, and I feel most importantly, putting God at the center of the marriage to make it work. There are times when it seem's easier, and some times harder. But if you work hard and working through those tough times, I think it will make the marriage stronger and last alot longer.

2007-02-15 05:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1 0

The phrase "nothing in life that's worth having is ever easy" also applies to marriage. As in anything, marriage has it's ups and downs. You have to work at it. But what you get in return is worth it!!

2007-02-15 04:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by bski0409 2 · 1 0

it can be if you find the right spouse. But it will have it's ups and downs. They say opposites attract. This ins't true most of the time. You need to have similar beliefs: spiritual and political. If you marry somebody before you really get to know them, it can be very hard.

2007-02-15 04:29:14 · answer #11 · answered by to be announced 2 · 0 0

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