So what do you think about this bicurious crush?

Question

Finally after months of not getting a reponse as to how my crush feels for me(History: She is a bi curious Str* girl who had her first Lesbian sex experiance w/me...She induced everything from the beginning and then went MIA).SO for V day, months later...I send her a dozen red roses...Shortly after delivery she lets me know that she is sorry for having been so confused and completely cares about me and misses me...She also would like to see me when I return to town...Im currently in another state... My Question is what could she be so confused about?..I never asked her for a relationship..IF anything it was her who seem to want to move fast.

Answer 1

She was probably confused about her sexuality, seeing as how you were the first girl she'd been with after (I assume) primarily straight relationships.

I sort of understand how she feels - I had to do a bit of self-evaluation after my first non-hetero experience. Hopefully she's found an answer, like I did: that love does not have bias in regards to gender, race, or other petty details. We love who we love, and embracing that erases all the confusion & worry.

Answer 2

well if you really want to meet with this girl then do it and that is all you can really do,you are only going to fast if you feel you do not want to go any further.besides there is no reason to think that she is the only lesbian in the world and if you want to you could always find someone who wants to move at your pace

Answer 3

I think you should try to talk to her and find out why exactly she is confused. She sounds ashamed too. She doesn't sound stable either, so be careful if you decide to go see her.

Answer 4

maybe she waited to see if you were really interested in her