I no this is braken all rules and i no its wrong but iv always had a thing for my friends fella.. We all work together and reasontly i cant stop thinking about him.. I would never try anything in a million years because i no how much my friend loves him so i need ideas on getting him out my head!!!!
We get on grate and hes one of my bestest lad friends at the moment.. Because we all wrok together its very hard to get him out my mind..
There is a rumor going around work that he is thinking of dumping my friend because hes got feeling for someone else.. Now am praying to god that it isnt me because then il have to turn him down and walk away from someone that i really like..
Iv got a feelin it is me though.. PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 03:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh no no no no...You def. cannot do that to your good friend!! It would never be the same between you two! He is def off limits..its in the girl handbook...lol....But , seriously, maybe you just want what you know you cant have, or you see how good he treats her and you want that...so go out there..there's plenty of guys to choose from that will treat you like gold! Stay away from him unless you no longer want her as a friend. Even of she says she would not mind....deep inside it would tear her apart!! Do not give him any signals that you would ever be with him! Please.....if she really is your friend, you wouldnt so that...
2007-02-15 04:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation happened to my sister. Her boyfriend of 6 years dumped her and then two days later was with her best friend since she was 3 years old. It devistated her. Not only had she lost her boyfriend she lost her best friend.
My thoughts on it are you can't help who you fall in love with but for situations like this, if he does finish with his girlfriend and it is you that he is interested, for the sake of her feelings give her some time to come to terms with the break up and then should you and the guy feel you can't stay apart you should sit down and talk to her about what may be.
Anyway, this was what I thought about when it happened to my sister and how it should have been handled to save her the heartache she went through.
2007-02-15 04:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by zanoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly ask your self this, if being with him for a month meant you will under no circumstances see your buddy lower back and she or he would be able to hate you, might you do it? by using fact particularly, if he's keen to enable human beings comprehend he is going to offload your buddy, for possibley HER buddy, then he's no longer properly worth some time, or your unfavorable friends. What kinda guy tells others until eventually now the lady he is going out with? ok, i will comprehend him conversing it by using with some close frineds, yet human beings at artwork? forget approximately this guy, and communicate approximately getting somebody else, that's an explosion waiting to ensue, and adult adult males have not got the comparable morals we do,he won't see something incorrect with screwing his exs buddy. rUN AWAY!
2016-09-29 03:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell him of the rumour you've heard and see whether he comes clean, if it is you tell him there is no way you can start a relationship with him and if he breaks off with your friend make it clear you will support her all the way.....if yous all stay in touch maybe some where down the line your friend might meet some one else and if yous still feel the same then you can take it from there
2007-02-15 04:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can try to find someone for yourself and that will take your mind off of him once u have someone to think and care for.If his feeling r 4 u then u know u can not date him guys come@go friends r there always.
2007-02-15 04:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by CaramelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day if he does leave her and wants you then give it ago. tell your friend about this if it does happen like this. u never know it might be the man who you spend the rest of your life with and have kids get married and live toghether. but it might not be you worry about it when it happens and go with your feelings
2007-02-15 05:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.. ♥
2007-02-15 04:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋