Besides totally confused, What would you call a straight gal who is attracted to gay guys? And if a girl likes a more feminine guy, would that mean she is semi -gay too?
2007-02-15 03:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by jessBcuz 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We often have good taste in clothes and take care of the way we look. We aren't ever trying to have sex with them, so our conversations tend to be more enjoyable. And women feel comfortable just being themselves around us, which can lead to attraction over time.
As for what I'd call a straight girl attracted to gay guys...
"Normal."
2007-02-15 03:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by DavidGC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really say. If your emotionally attracted to women, in the sense that you want to spend the rest of your life with one and so on so forth, you wouldn't be gay. But as far as your physical attraction to men, when you see a guy, are you really attracted to him or do you just admire him? Admiration and attraction are not the same thing. If you just admire nice looking men, your not gay, if your actually attracted to men, that sounds like homosexuality. But you also like girls too. So as of now I'd write you off as Bi curious, possibly bisexual, but not gay or straight. But then agian, you could change how you feel later on. If i were you, I'd just forget about the labels for now and just go with the flow, until you know what you are. It's really not my, or anyone elses place to say weither or not your gay.
2016-03-29 07:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience, I know that some girls get-off on the chase, so to speak. They have fantasies about being the special woman that can turn a man straight. A lot of these women are insecure with themselves. They can be in denial and think that he just needs the right woman. There's other reasons as well depending on the dynamics of the relationship but I have found this usually to be the case.
2007-02-15 03:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for other women I can only speak for myself,... I like to have gay male friends because, I have a male around that I know won't make a pass at me, but still have a male friend,they have the same interest that I have,there are more women & gay men that are intrested in the arts, then straight men.
And most of the gay men I'm with are my brothers friends.
2007-02-15 04:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by 520 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong or strange about being attracted to guys who have feminine qualities.. i think feminine qualities make for a good person and a good loving and caring relationship. and no, this doesn't make a woman gay. she would only be gay or bi if she is interested in other women.
now it's not really fair to stereotype. not all gay men are feminine.. and if a women is attracted to men simply because she learns of his sexual orientation as being gay, then perhaps this woman enjoys teasing herself by becoming attracted to men she'll never be able to have, and that isn't necessarily healthy..
2007-02-15 03:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That doesn't mean that. Gay guys are just SO cute. One person told me that the reason why gals are attracted to gay guys is because in human nature, we want what we can't have.
2007-02-15 03:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a straight woman who has many gay male friends, I gotta tell you. They're usually better dressed, nicer mannered, plumper in the pocket and more willing to expend it on you in return for the pleasure of your company. They don't make you feel like just a means to scratch a biological itch. And top that off with the fact that so many of them are really yummy eye candy and you got my reasons. Because neither of us is interested in the other sexually, we can just enjoy each other's company, a real pleasure for me as I'm an avowed celibate.
2007-02-15 03:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Granny Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's safer to be attracted to someone you'll never actually have to be with. Relationships are scary, gay men are safe for women to hang out with.
2007-02-15 03:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by LexLimo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cause they are usually better to look at and alot more fun to hang with does that answer your question? P.S. I am not gay!
2007-02-15 03:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Radtech1996 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call 'em a fag-hag. If there is one that only hangs out at gay bars she is called a bar-fly.
2007-02-15 03:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋