its for her own good.
2007-02-15 03:39:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I don't know. How can she make you have a lobotamy? It's for your own good. Idiot.
You CHOSE to get her knocked up so DEAL WITH IT! AS8H0LE!
2007-02-15 03:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot "make your girlfriend have an abortion." Forced abortions are illegal in America. If you really cared about your girlfriend, you wouldn't ask her to kill your baby and put her life at risk. Take a look at this:
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
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http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
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http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
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2007-02-16 16:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Just the Facts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, can't make her. But do ask her and talk to her about it. Ask her how she feels about having an abortion. Obviously you are not ready to take responsiblities so do let her know without sounding hurtful, mean, rejected and demanding that you are not ready. DO NOT put the blame on her, you are involved in this as much as she is. You should pay for it all since she will be going through the physical trama as will as the emotional impact from it.
2007-02-15 03:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, abortion is never for anyone's good. It's murder. How could you even think of doing that to your own child, your flesh and blood? This is an amazing miracle and blessing, and if you just hang in there, step up, and grow up, you'll be so glad you did! I know the whole thing is a shock, but don't be a quitter, love your girlfriend and support her in what she REALLY needs...to nurture this new life!
2007-02-15 03:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Meredith R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all you shouldn't be making your girlfriend do anything but you can sit her down and discuss what you guys should do because obviously you guys had unprotected sex or something and she got pregnant but you know that it takes 2 to tango! so it takes two (ADULTS) to take care of what happens when you don't watch what your doing!
anywho. . . you cant (make) her do anything but you can talk to her and see about adoption when she has the baby. I dont believe in abortion because just imagin that you could be in a trash bag waiting to be dumped out to a grave of baby's but luckly your parents loved you enough to take care of you. just put yourself into (YOUR) baby's shoes and see how you would like it! oh and hear is some pics to show you on what abortion looks like! now do you want to (MAKE) her do that?
I hope that you look at what you are asking of your girlfriend!
2007-02-15 05:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her do it, and how do you know what is for her own good? Is it because you're not responsible enough to take care of a baby? or all you want is sex, and don't want to accept the consequences? It's time for you to step up and be a man
2007-02-15 03:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by cirnrab 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a complete jerk for thinking you have any right to make her have an abortion. You're a bigger jerk for thinking it's for her own good - you wouldn't be telling her if it wasn't really for YOUR own good, now would you?
2007-02-15 03:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't make your girl have an abortion because you both layed down and had sex and now that she pregnant you not man enough to take care of what's comin out of her man that messed up she don't need to have an abortion be a man and take responsibility
2007-02-15 03:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make her. This is a choice every woman has to make for herself. Truly you have no say so in the situation. You better face realitiy. If she wants it, she is going to have it
2007-02-15 05:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by younghotarmymom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her and you are a jerk for trying! a women has a right to choose what she wants to do with her own body!
2007-02-15 03:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋