I mean, I want to be nicer, more optimistic and stuff...
but people always tell me "You changed so much over last summer"
like it's a bad thing...Is it ok that I want to change??
2007-02-15 03:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not a bad thing that you like change, but it is hard for most people to accept. I think it's one of those things that everybody likes the idea of, but has a hard time dealing with the reality.
2007-02-15 03:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just saying you changed doesn't always mean in a negative way. You say you are trying to be nicer, more optimist, etc, that is all good. Keep up the good work. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-15 11:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanting to change is not a problem. You just need to look at why you want to change meaning is the change for yourself or others around you. If you want to change for yourself because you feel it will make you a better person then do it. Who cares what other people think of you. It's also a good time to find out who your true friends are.
2007-02-15 11:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by siennasmom04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that is a good thing to change. You have to be happy with yourslef, be positive no matter how painful it may be and have a good positive attitude and laugh more. Life is so short and to want to be positive not matter what takes a lot of courage and guts, go for it and you will never look back and now that you are positive more positive stuff will happen to you and you will be happier. Take care Heather
2007-02-15 11:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is always good. Don't worry about it. If your changes are good, keep changing. But don't change into a bad person though.
2007-02-15 11:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called evolution hunny and dont get left behind while everyone else improves upon themselves. Anyone who makes you feel bad for changing is probably afraid of losing you as a friend. As women grow through each decade of our lives we undergo transformations. Its healthy and normal.
2007-02-15 11:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! People certainly can change for the better....change can be very good sometimes! Good for you!!
Good luck with everything!
2007-02-15 11:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great you want to be better. More ppl should do that. Its not bad at all change can be very good!!! Good luck *** SMILE**
2007-02-15 11:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Steff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to change to be a better person then go for it..ppl might talk..but sooner they'll have to adapt to the changes you made..good luck
2007-02-15 11:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by asking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to change for the better, maybe they r just telling u that cuz they r shocked of how u became a better person
2007-02-15 11:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by lovelycallgirl6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋