2007-02-15 03:18:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes its enough, you have a blessing ya faulkernat
2007-02-15 03:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by badboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it you feel is not enough? If you say your wife loves you and you have two kids, what it is you are looking for? Only you can answer that question. You only need to leave if the answer to that question is not found in your present situation? But are you just bored, overwhelmed, tired? Sometimes you just need a rest. Tell your family you need a weekend at a local hotel, to sleep and watch TV without any interrupts and no obligations or a week vacation with some guy friends to a guy place (car show, etc). When you come back be ready to jump back into the husband/daddy job and go on. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-15 11:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not satisfied, but have a wife that loves you....I think the problem is with you. Maybe you need some counseling or something, because it sounds like you are ready to just cheat or something. You don't want that on your conscious, so seek help, before you make a grave mistake. Staying in your marriage like this would be unhealthy for you and your family, do them the good grace of seeking help, if not for you, then for them.
2007-02-15 11:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Queenelizabeth79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave why i mean why did u marry her why did u tell her u loved her why waste her time so ur kinda saying that ur words arent reliable falling into the statistics thats what u want for ur marriage make it work the grass always looks greener on the other side love that woman like its the last thing ur gonna do please just love that woman theres too much pain going around dont do that to a woman who has borne u two kids it aint right make it work and it might help if u get with God
2007-02-15 11:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what else you want or need.
More love? sex? adventure? a better TV set?
Marriage and children, (Pay attention, they do not tell you this in school) are not all fun and games, and you are now living your life when someone else is the priority (yes. the kids).
If your general dissatisfaction can be pinpointed and remedied with say, couple's' counselling, a fishing trip, purchasing fancier power tools or getting a nice appointment with your friendly local high class call girl, then do that. If the problem goes deeper, and your unhappiness cannot be addressed via above mentioned methods, I strongly suggest you speak with your wife regarding a trial separation and divorce.
No one deserves to live in constant unhappiness. Not you or your family.
Good Luck.
2007-02-15 11:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that you have a wife that loves you but you didn't say how you feel about her? there is some reason that you are feeling like the grass is greener on the other side of the fence! before you make a big mistake, try to figure out what it is that you feel you are not getting out of this relationship. are you thinking that the romance is gone? then try to put it back. chances are that your wife is feeling some of the same things that you are. maybe she also wants to put some excitement back into your relationship also.maybe if you sit down and talk to her you can figure out what needs to change to make things better. people are ever changing situations change and we need to learn how to adjust. i know many times it feels like it would be so wonderful to just be able to run away and be free again. if you do you are in for a rude awakening. the grass is never greener and many times we can not undo things once we have set them in motion. before you do something rash, try to figure out what it is that you need and try looking at ways to get it without doing something that you could regret for the rest of your life. then, if you still feel like you can not handle things the way the are, at least you gave it every possible chance to work! good luck!!!!
2007-02-15 11:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by cvgm702 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u don't leave that is a coward, u try to work on it, any way u can. depends on what u are looking for in the marriage, and what your expectations really are. we all have slumps in our marriages where we are sure we don't love that person anymore. marriage is hard sometimes, but so rewarding at times. u may need to talk it out, tell her how u are feeling before u make any rash moves. maybe it's just a matter of making a few changes.
2007-02-15 11:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side. You need to look to some higher source to soothe your heart, not, a new women, or other sexual fulfillment. If you leave, chances are, you'll be even unhappier with your life, really hurt your children, and cause your wife suffering. Change your life, yes, but, find another way for solace!
2007-02-15 11:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur not satisfied there is no reason to stay in a relationship that ur not happy in, but at the same time u need peace in the relationship bc u do have kids
2007-02-15 11:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Adrianna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you so weak, why the hell did u marry and even dream of having kids if u cant take the responsibility. u are a loser and if u want to remain a loser till the day u bite the dust, then leave. but believe me, look around u, millions of people dont have what u have and u are planning to give it all away so casually. i think ur wife shd leave u and your children shd refrain from calling u dad. get lost!
2007-02-15 11:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pls dnt leave!!!
Dnt spoil 3 and more lives!
Ur kids look up to u.
Stay in and think of ways to add in to ur relationship of husband/wife. Think what u can do to make them happy and as days pass by, things will fall in place.
2007-02-15 11:35:19 · answer #11 · answered by A K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋