The other guys make fun of me. The cold water doesn't seem to help either. Please help I'm 14.
2007-02-15 03:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by Peter R 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I had this very same problem a few years ago, I am 20 now. They actually did an episode about this on a sit-com one time too. I would suggest, if you do not want erections any more to start masturbating before you go swimming. Possibly daily to eliminate sexual feelings during the day and do it in private of course! That way you won’t get hard in your Speedo. I masturbate two times a day or have sex and I never get erections during the day.
Of course, if you are against masturbation, just forget about it! Don’t be ashamed of your penis, the other guys are probably just jealous or feel awkward. It is not your fault, it is natural and normal. Eventually the guys will stop mocking you and move on. Besides it is bound to happen to one of them sometime also. Also, the more you think about not getting one, the harder it gets. So just let it go and the problem will too. Good luck!
2007-02-15 04:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age, I had a real problem with this too.
There isn't too much you can really do-- you are young and healthy, and this is going to happen. If the guys make fun of you, make a joke of it- jutt your hips forward and ask them if they are jealous.
It's crazy that they make 14 y/o boys where little speedos. I know they have less drag in the water, but COME ON.... we (men) were all 14 once. We know what it's like. I once popped one IN THE SHOWER.... that was a fun gym class. ugg.
2007-02-15 12:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hay Peter, honestly mate just chill out!
I've recently turned 16, so you and me are in the same boat! I used to have your problem, and still do on occasions! We all get that feeling when we become excited or anxious, or see another girl/boy in the skin!
Mate, as a fellow expedition-er don't worry about it! The other guys will either be experiencing same problems and are ashamed! Or, are very likely to have problems with their *****!
Petey if your happy about your size and your health, flaunt it bud! You may feel a bit embarrased infront of the lads, but the ladies may be flattered! LOL
Also, if you wanna stop it from hapening as often, masturbate! Honestly it helps, and isnt that bad as a necessity!!!
Peace out!!
2007-02-15 13:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, you are a hurricane of hormones and testosterone at 14.
At this stage you should be concerned if that DOESN'T happen! Trust me, you'll be fine!
One suggestion.. since it is a close-fitting garment and you might be concerned about how it looks, simply put your penis laying flat against your stomach in the locker room prior to coming out. It may not show off as much!
Good luck and stop worrying!
2007-02-15 11:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by rob1963man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wear smaller speedos underneath your speedos. It will make your b0ner look less obvious from outside.
2007-02-15 19:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and i swim...ive seen it happen to guys and i dont really make a big deal about it....one time my period leaked during practice and the guys were really cool about it....im sure that what your going through has happedned to the other guys who make fun of you....there just jerks
2007-02-15 13:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
after wearing speedos for awhile youl get used to them and stop getting boners. masturbate before, that helps. also the more you think about getting boners the more boners you will have, just forget about it and it you will stop getting them
2007-02-15 21:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bro, its normal actually, you have nothing to worry...it only means that you're in good shape..at least as early as now, you're sure that you're not impotent...kidding aside..its really normal, even pro swimmers do experienced that...again, dont bother those guys making fun of you, you just dont know that they are also experiencing what you are experiencing right now...you just dont noticed that. keep it up bro...hope to see you in international competition soon..goodluck to your studies also.
2007-02-15 20:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by yevkovphil 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the other guys, there's nothing wrong with your body.
2007-02-16 02:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋