my best friend, "sarah" and I used to be a threesome with another girl, caitlin. Caitlin kind of betrayed us and we are freinds anymore. the problem is because of loosing her friendship, "sarah" has replaced that void with her boyfriend, who isn't such a great guy. she and I don't really hang out at all and she is always with her boyfriend when we do. i don't really know how to confront her with the fact that she isn't really being theur for me when i really need someone to be there for me, and when i work for her dad? i don't want to lose her friendship or my job, but i feel like i am in a situation where i have to keep my mouth shut to make the last few months of my senior year in high school bearable.
2007-02-15 01:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by sandy c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to continue, she has been with this guy for over a year, and they break up and make up every few weeks, and i have to omfort her, usually, and lately i just haven't been cause i am sick of it, but she gets upset at me and not at him after they get back together again.
2007-02-15 04:54:56 · update #1
That's a very common thing to loose a friend over a b-friend....girls do it ALL the time....the best thing to do is to mention it to her and expect that she may take it postiivly or defensivly....either way you did your part by telling her and make sure to mention that she is a really good friend to you and you don't want to loose that frindship especially over a guy....guys come and go and I'll bet you that if they were to ever break up, you won't hear enough from her....it sucks that women do that but I really think you're frind is a little insecure and doesn't know how to balance friends with boyfriends....she'll find out....so, like I said, mention it to her and as for the job don't jeaopardize it by putting your feelings in front....look out for yourself and let your friend either realize what she's doing when you tell her or later the hard way....good luck sweetie! :)
2007-02-15 01:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she doesnt spend time with you she used to do before she had a bf.. But you know what, that's quite normal.. Girls when they have a boyfriend they prefer to hang out with their boy friends... it's called growing up and puberty... After maybe 10 years it's gonna turn back to normal. When girls become a woman being independent is being prefered.. Men don't matter so much...
2007-02-15 09:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by :( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through something a little similiar. you need to confront her and if she gets angry, you will find out she was never really your freind. Good luck
2007-02-15 09:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kya kaho yar mai b khud janna chahta hu bec'z meri ek friend b mere se alag ho chuki hai
2007-02-15 09:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by manoj tulani 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
post before and after photos...
2007-02-15 09:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋