My Ex-girlfriend says she is pregnant?

Question

Hiya every one i know people have had pregnacy problems answered on here so heres mine right basically, i lost my v to this girl we well i loved her dont know wheather she did and so we whent out it werent untill 2months till we had sex and i lost my v, she'd had sex befor manny times starting from the age of 12 or 13, i woz here 7th lad but that didn't bother me much. Toward the 9th month we talked and she decided we argue to much and so we suggested a break up of a bit, so we did a week after. WE both seperatly whent to a party and she got wid a kinda mate. Shes now with another lad goin out shes plays me round saying she likes me still and she is quite know by manny for lieing about pregnacy but basically she has me f**ked up. She has turned round to me and said that she is 6months due 7 she has know about it since the start. Now i dont know weather she is and this friday i am taking her for the test im so seacred & peeps have sed she just whants me back please advise me thanks.....

Well lol its a long story but basically we have alwas been protected 1 way or an other i loved her though and love blinds but i still have that kind of feeling weird though aint it. But hay i guess that i can't belive she could be and especially that she never told me that she wos till 6months she said that she wouldn't what it killed well thats kind of ok. But not given the choice in the matter is hard and well iv kind of been checked out as when we were to gether she got the coil fitted so they took swabs and they had my number to contact me as she didnt have aa moblie num and didnt whant here mum involved so thats safe at least

We split up 3-4 months ago, the reason i'd rather have the clinique do it is that its more indefinate that she is or isn't its a safer check than me doing it, and of course less way there can be any fiddles with the result eg; messing with the test.

Answer 1

if she is deal with it

Answer 2

Questions you need to consider:

1) Did you have unprotected sex with her? And did you have sex with her 6 months or so ago? If not, then you are not likely the father, even if she is pregnant.

2) If you don't want a baby, why are you having unprotected sex? Make a committment to yourself that you will NEVER have sex again without using a condom with spermicidal lubricant, or one of these days soon, your luck will run out, and you will owe child support payments for 18 years.

3) Why are you going to a clinic to find out if your former girlfriend is pregnant? Just buy a home pregnancy test from the pharmacy and have her pee on the stick. Actuallly, if she is 6 or 7 months pregnant, she will have a big pregnancy belly and be showing by now for sure. So there would be no doubt if she is pregnant. Why do you need a test?

4) Have you gone to the doctor & gotten checked for sexually transmitted diseases? She obviously has multiple partners and may well have an infectious disease she has passed on to you. Some have no symptoms but still can be quite serious.

Answer 3

Go to the test cos at least you'll know one way or the other whether there is a baby for a start. Basically if the baby's yours you need to be there for the baby. Get a paternity test done and find out for sure. As for your ex girlfriend she sounds like the last person you should be with. Please don't try and work it out for the sake of the baby. It sounds like it wouldn't last anyway.

Answer 4

If she's six months along, you should be able to tell if she's pregnant or not. She should definitely be showing by now. Even really skinny people would show by now. I doubt she's pregnant. If you're taking her for the test, then that's all you can do.

Next time, be more careful. Use protection. Always! If you don't want a baby yet, protect yourself and her.

Good luck!

Answer 5

my friend, wait until the baby is born get paternity test. If the baby is not yours leave the girl alone. If the baby is yours be a responsible dad. She has a lot of drama in her life which is not a good sign. Get tested for STD's and use protection. And remember you can not change a person you can only change your self!

Answer 6

it is attainable she's pregnant via fact it is been 4 weeks given which you had intercourse whether it relies upon on whilst her final era grew to become into and despite if she had one in any respect in Jan. except she will truthfully prepare you a superb being pregnant try or enables you to flow to the medical doctors along with her to confirm it there is not any longer lots you're able to do different than to take what she says at face fee. you comprehend her and you comprehend despite if she's able to mendacity to you like this. P.S. I conceived between 8th-tenth Oct and found out on twenty 6th Oct i grew to become into pregnant. desire this helps =)

Answer 7

Sounds fishy to me make sure she gets checked for how long she is to be aware of if it is even really your child. Clinic is wonderful tell them blood test for the best gaurantee

Answer 8

If you broke up 9 months ago, I don't think the kid is yours -- unless you're been having sex with her since you broke up. BTW she'd probably be showing right now if she's 6 1/2 months pregnant!

Answer 9

she is takeing you for a ride get off the train tell her to call you when she is haveing the kid and then go the next day to court house file papers for support and vistion cuz if you don't right off the bat you will get it up the bum really bad

Answer 10

dude dont be worrie about it. how old are you is the question. if your young and not settled bet your a** u should be scared. but if your set then u will be al right so dont worrie bout it now till you no for sure. stay positive too

Answer 11

go with her to get the test if she plays games leave her .if she has your baby you dont need to be with her to take care of the baby.
best of luck she needs to slow down on the boys get checked for an std