a few of us (girls) were sitting in the pub, my boyfriend and his friends came in for a drink, i had to leave and my friends stayed.(they had only just met the guys that day) then my friends left but one decided to stay with my boyfriend and his friends, remember she had never met them before this day, she stayed with them for several hours then went home...problem? the next day she came and told me that my boyfriend had been saying things about my children, which he denys and i have no reason to doubt him, but the only thing that is bothering me is the fact she stayed with them in the first place... she did not know any of them and she hung around them, then decided to spread a bit of gossip along the way.
2007-02-15
00:25:35
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thankyou for all answers.. the girl in question does have a boyfriend of her own, she has been with him 2 years. i didnt mind the fact she stayed it was more the gossip that bothered me. i questioned him because my kids mean the world and more to me. he has met them and gets on well with them, so i find it hard to believe he did say anything about them.
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2007-02-15
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She sounds like a bit of a troublemaker.
2007-02-15 00:30:32
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answered by stegall_sherry 4
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Doesn't sound too nice a person, I say this because she is spreading 'gos. However can't honestly say there was anything wrong with her staying on with the group of boys, mind you would have looked better if another female had stayed. Take it she is unattached so she maybe thought she would get a date out of it, hopefully she had eyes for someone other than your boyfriend. Don't let her see that what she said is bothering you, why should it if you are so sure of your boyfriend? Also it doesn't look like any of the guys arranged to meet up with her and it's not likely you will take her in to their company again so it was a one off.
2007-02-15 06:00:17
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answered by Ms Mat Urity 6
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What was she doing? She didnt want to go home as early as everyone else because she had nothing to go home for. She felt more comfortable, staying there with them, than going alone somewhere else. She told the truth about your bfs comments because she thought she should let you know, being more your friend than his. He denied it because he doesnt want to get in trouble. Dont shoot the messenger!
She's not after your man....she probably wasnt aware that she should keep secrets. Just tell her next time to lie by omission, if someone else says something negative about you or your family....so you wont be hurt by idle (drunken) chatter. Mind you....after this episode she probably wont say anything again anyway.
2007-02-15 00:42:14
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answered by Scully 4
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You're friend was probably having a good time and didn't want to leave,maybe she fancied a bit of male attention or she just gets on well with guys. How do you know he didn't say anything about your kids,they had been drinking all day,maybe she misinterpreted something.
2007-02-15 00:31:34
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answered by heebygeeby 4
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Some people are just bitchy, she will only have done it to make herself feel better. It tells you more about her than anything else.
Tell her you don't appreciate her spreading gossip about you and she should stop.
Maybe she's a bit of a tart and was hoping she could go home with one of them
2007-02-15 00:30:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Perhaps the question you should be asking is: If she didn't really know them, what would she have to gain by spreading rumors? We all talk **** behind our loved ones back sometimes even though we still love them. And when you get caught it's easier to deny and say that the other person is lying, especially when your loved one really wants to believe you. Even the best of people talk ****.
2007-02-15 00:39:20
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answered by middelmom 2
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drop her
both my love and i have friends outside of the couples we hang out with
we both have guy and girl friends that we do things with
when i go out with the girls that is our time when we vent or talk about our men it stays between us we do not go home and tell our men
she is a trouble maker
when you go out with your Friends it should be a private time for you to talk openly
we know the men do it and they dont come back and say anything
it is a part of being a couple with friends it is an unstated rule you DONT SAY ANYTHING
2007-02-15 00:31:05
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answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6
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so it don't sound like she hit on your boyfriend.and you say she did a little bit of gossiping .it sounds like he did too but you don't want to believe that tho.that's what people get sitting in a pub drinking.any time people spend hours drinking nothing can come out good.
2007-02-15 00:33:22
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answered by luv babygurl 3
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She's a "Drama Queen" and a sl*t. Tell her to stay away from your bf. And tell your bf and his friends to tell her to get lost when she comes around. I had to cut off a musician friend of mine just this last year, because he and his wife were talking sh*t about me to my wife, and then denying it when I fronted them both out during our "Almost Divorce". People like that are losers and worthless pieces of human flesh. :)
2007-02-15 00:34:33
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answered by Gasman 4
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Pray for her Wendy! This is tghe kind of people without God...she needs your prayers to become a better human being!
2007-02-15 00:32:17
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answered by tatal_nostru2006 5
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