My wife is a great dominatrix. But I've recently been unemployed, going on 6 weeks now, and she has started to bring this up in our sessions, to humiliate me. Now, I don't mind a little old fashioned humiliation, but this really stings. Any idea how to go about bringing this up. Should I do it when I'm tied up or during normal hours?
2007-02-15 00:17:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
normal hours...do it during and she will just kick you harder
2007-02-15 00:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Susie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest telling her honestly how you feel, during "normal hours". You two probably already have certain boundaries or limits set up, as is always a good idea, so just add this to the list of 'off-limit' practices. I'm sure she'll respect you for speaking your mind.
2007-02-15 00:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definately a normal hours kind of thing, that way she can find something else to humiliate you about, it may be bothering her too, so you guys should talk about it. After that make sure her boots are clean, good lucky, you are a lucky man.
2007-02-15 00:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep your mouth shut, cause she's going to make you pay for saying anything about this during your next session with her. Your best option in this situation is to get back to working some form of job. Now get back in your box slave and stfu. LOL
2007-02-15 00:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... I don't know why this is even a question, but I think the solution is to tell her how you feel during normal hours. (during action would really ruin the moment)
2007-02-15 00:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife should be the only person in the world to whom you can tell anything; even if it's a complaint and even if the complaint is about her.
do it in normal hours so you won't burst her bubble while she's living the part.
2007-02-15 00:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by fate_n83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know why asked that question in here i can sense the smile on your face ummm i think you better tied her up look for a job
so you did not feel all those humilation crap
2007-02-15 00:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know that normal hrs are the times when you bring up rules or concerns
this is the time you should tell her how you truly feel
2007-02-15 00:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only make believe humiliation so it's ok...just suck it up
2007-02-15 00:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that.
Anyway - who let you onto the internet? Get back in your box.
2007-02-15 00:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by brown one 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The freakshow continues.
2007-02-15 00:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋