my ex divorced me like 3 years ago and has tried for over a year to get me back and i am engaged to someone else now. he now hates me and he made sure to call me to tell me where he took his new girlfriend for valentine's and how much money he spent. why is he doing this?
2007-02-15 00:00:57 · 23 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is jealous if he does have a girlfriend he is just using her to make you jealous and try to make you feel something for him still and you should not take his calls you are leading him on he feels like when you pick up the phone he has a fighting chance to get back with you so stop doing that all it is him feeling jealous and for you making him feel like that so he wants you to feel the same way as he does so don't show its working if you do he will keep on doing it so just forget about him and it will take time but he will go away
2007-02-15 00:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple.. he's jealous.. hes one of those people that doesnt want to be with u , but doesnt want anyone else to be with u either.. im guessing that he didnt start taking an interest in you again untill ur fiancee entered the picture?.. He called u to tell u about the valentines gift in attempt to make u jealous....hes just playing games, just dont pay attention, if he calls... ask him if its a call of importance.. example i dont know if u have kids together but if u do , if its to discuss the children fine, but if he moves onto a subject of a personal nature, then hang up.. let him know its strictly business between the two of u now, nothing personal.. so if its something that "has' to be discussed things involving the divorce, property etc.. fine, anything thing else that the phone will be hung up ..
2007-02-15 00:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Had a similar situation.. I really dont get it. I sure wouldnt call an ex up and try to rub it in that im with someone else. Makes no sense to me but its happened with me before. They must get off on it. They want to make you jealous. I think this guy might care about you still and is just tryin to make you jealous for the sake of it. Or hes an ahole. One of the 2. You should either stop taking his calls or tell him to knock it off or dont call. You dont need to hear about that.
2007-02-15 00:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by heartofgold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely did that because he wants you to be jealous and he is still tiring to get you back i had an ex husband who did that but he drug out our divorce for 3 yr tiring to hold on and I was was with someone too he tried everything he was nice to me and my new boyfriend i just let him do it because it was him who was jealous not me and now this week will be 7yr i have been remarried and he has stoped calling so let it go unless he gets to be like a stocker the call the cops good luck
2007-02-15 02:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by mjaynor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously still wants you back. He is trying to make you jealous. Showing off with everything he is doing for his girlfriend - hoping that you will say I wish you do those things for me.
If you are engaged - let him understand you are not part of his life anymore and wish him not to be part of your.
Do not take his calls anymore
It is time for him to let go and move on and the only way for him to do that is for you to break all communications etc.
2007-02-15 00:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Juanita L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband of 7 years still tries to win me back.
Am I crazy because I married him intially? NO!!!!!
I was young and did not see him as a controlling man.
Your ex is wounded because you have moved on. He cannot.
Perhaps you took his call because of other circumstances and not because you were interested in his personal life but in the future make it clear to him that you are not interested in his personal life and the minute he starts to talk about it hang up.
2007-02-15 00:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by IPnlove 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why do u care? jealous still? if my ex called me to inform about this stuff i wouldn't even pick up the phone - i am absolutely not interested what is his doing with his money
2007-02-15 00:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just mad because you won't take him back. I guess by telling you about his Valentine's day, maybe he thought he would make you jealous. If you really don't care, let it be obvious to him that you could care less. That'll really piss him off!
2007-02-15 00:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by DGBrandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to let you know he's the last of the big spenders and thinks you should jump for joy and go running back to him. The truth be told he took his g/f...if he even has one...to McDonald's.
2007-02-15 00:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is stupid and is looking to gain control in your relationship. I know you is not with him, but it is still control. Just say okay and move on. Don't entertain that nonsense or he will get what he wants: a reaction.
2007-02-15 00:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Michael b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋