I have asked this question in a different category, but thought I would try here too..?

Question

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Please take a look & answer this for me.......

Answer 1

we ARE products of our Past, so in a way you can't....however, what matters
is HOW WE USE OUR PAST. Do you really understand each and every area
where you made a mistake or were wrong. how about the other person?
Have you tried to find out? Have you made POSITIVE changes to help future
relationships. Did you have a good relationship with your Creator? Did the
last bf? Does the present bf? why? Because a 3 way relationship LASTS --
a system of values and principles to live by enable 2 people to work out problems and to have God's help IF they really agree that He's right and
they don't "rule". Try it! But maybe not with this guy......as long as YOU are
doing your part, you won't feel alone and you'll attract someone who has values and can appreciate YOU [not just your looks, etc].
so, don't regret the past....just use it to help your future!