we should forgive him/her or take revenge tit for tat to teach him/her a lesson.
2007-02-14 22:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by payal s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey... no need of revenge,,, u dont have to be like him or her...
just move on,,, its life,,,
and long one u will find good people if u have pure heart,,,
journey is sometimes beautiful then distination reached so travell this life with dignity...
dont worry,,,,
i also faced what u r,,,, facing ...
i hope u take this thing positive and move,,,,,
take care,,,,
2007-02-14 23:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge from a Best Friendddd, doesn't sound nice at all.
1. Convey your dislike.
2. Criticiize the reason, not your Best Friend.
3. Forgiveness is a trait of a great personality.
4. Clear the air.
5. Misunderstandings, Self-Assumptions spoil relations.
2007-02-15 23:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See-if he or she is ur bst frnd den u shud forgive her.B'cos a person who forgives has got great value.But if he/she has badly hurt u and ur emotions den d bst thing to do is - question him/her dat y such a thing happened and y were u made a pawn in d game!if dey can answer all ur queries den u will come to kno a valid reason of his/her doing so.But if u r still nt satisfied and d instinct of revenge is still buggin u den i mst say dat jst Go for it.Hit him/her nicely or abuse him/her(verbally ofcourse) b'cos no 1 has gt d right to play wid ur emotions and den throw away u as a "use - n -throw pen".Best of luck.
2007-02-15 18:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by pooja ready for help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try to find out wether it was your fault because she/he betrayed you:
If it was ur fault "APOLOGISE"
If it was the other persons fault then that peson really was not worthy for you.
To avoid such things it is better if you stop making best friends in the first place. Talk to everybody in the same way so u will never be friendless.
2007-02-15 00:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by ramya_coolqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather suggest you let bygones be bygones and forget the matter. But be more careful to select your friends next time. And let this incident serve as a lesson.
2007-02-15 03:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relation face ups and downs if you consider him/her as ur best friend so i suggest forgive him he/she really realised his/her mistake and he/she never will be again like that.
Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom
2007-02-15 00:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by singleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say it depends on how he/she betrays you...
if it's 'below-the-belt' then it's time to tell your friends it's through...
if it were me, and it's foul, maybe i can forgive but it's hard to forget..as we all know, 'THE DAMAGE IS DONE'...you'll never trust your friend the way you used to do before...
but if it's not that foul, well, maybe you can forgive and forget...
as for the revenge thing, forget it...
believe in karma...it's sooo true...
don't worry, they'll have their own (for betraying you)..
i know it, the ones who had hurt me had theirs...
2007-02-14 23:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by ravenkyle2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her company
tats the best solution
2007-02-15 01:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how close a frnd he/she was and whether u wanna continue u'r frndsip but if u'r frnds for a long time forgive him
2007-02-14 23:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Forever Fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S ALL DPENDS WHO BETRAYED YOU,IF U WOULD LIKE TO HAVE FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM/HER IN FUTURE ,JUST GIVE HIM/HER A WARNING ONLY,OR IF YOU WANT TO DESTROY UR FRIENDSHIP TAKE A BIGGER REVENGE TO HIM/HER
2007-02-14 22:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by ROSERAJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋