I would just like to express my opinions and I would rather like you to comment on it.
Women these days. I am and independent woman, I have been married but I am now divorced. I used to live in the country, Mansion the lot. I moved to Camden (London) and started my musical career. I got involved with the usual stuff in London (substances and alcohol) and I was in a different relationship every week and then finally, after 4 years I got married to an abusive git. He woudn't let me go out so I was like, OUT! He didn't go so one night I chucked all his belongings onto the street and when he came home from the pub I gave him my lip. And now, I am happy. Women these days, put up with it. I can't beleive if you are being bullied in such a way, why live with it? Of course not everybody is as strong.
Hopefully if you are reading this and you have been in the same situation or anything else please comment.
I got myself a dog - a real life saver!
2007-02-14 22:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by VintageSecret-xo 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
hey hey, we're the monkees!
2007-02-14 22:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Boofie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are right to an extent about the weakness, but also there are other infuences, such as society's opinion as a whole on women who can't make a relationship work. Even though we cannot be to blame entirely, sometimes we are actually the ones to blame, what with incessant whining and pi $ $ing and moaning about everything. Another influence is the new/old trend to stay at home with your children, creating a huge financial burden on the male to keep everything financially stable. Too many women are not prepared to take on the financial aspect b/c of their reliance on their husbands income and would be lost and confused(more women need to realize this and start their own little savings that their husbands know nothing of. How, you ask? Just write checks for 10 or 20 over whenever you can, et cetera. That way there's a little confidence in the bank nest egg that may give the female just enough boost be be able to boot! My humble opinion....
2007-02-15 03:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loved the unbiased way You related Your story. I especially liked the part where You mentioned the Man with the cheating wife who couldn't keep off the pills, drank a cask of wine every single day, emptied the bank accounts and then shot through with Her new girlfriend! And then when She dies the poor old husband gets to go into debt just to pay for the funeral.
What a pity We Men never have a bad relationship. You have no idea how wonderful it is to live in a world where all Women are as perfect as can be. Who knows, perhaps if We could have just a few moments of heart break, hurt and abject despondency in Our lives then perhaps We too would be a little bit more sympathetic towards the plight of others...... It is sympathy that you are looking for isn't it? Or are You just trying to big note yourself? The worst part about Women whose marriages have failed is the way You think that You are both a martyr and a victim. I'll bet You never once thought about all the Men who have stuck around even when the marriage was over. Get over it. I had to. Thanks for the trip down memory lane!
2007-02-14 22:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am sorry that it took you that long to finally get wise, but good for you for doing it before you got killed. All the guys in the world are not bad, but certain women attract the bad ones. Seek some help so you don't fall into the same self defeating thing with your next relationship. No one is worth that kind of abuse.
2007-02-14 22:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,well done to you! I have a sister in an emotionally abusive relationship but one which my family thinks could get physical.She's constantly worrying aout what he will think-she won't change her car coz he told her not to and he never buys her a birthday present or goes to places with her.they've been going out for6 yeras this September, got engaged bout 5months after they got together.He has her wrapped around his finger but there's nothing we can say to make her change her life. I'm glad to know you're happy with your decision, best of luck for the future x
2007-02-14 22:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by D8411 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you put up with this for over four years....and we are crazy? Hmmm
2007-02-14 22:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Just Me ~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...well, good for you. But, of course, you do know that not all guys are that bad...
2007-02-14 22:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not crazy, and I think you are!
2007-02-14 22:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
''JUST'' crazy?
2007-02-14 22:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋