i have this friend and we used to be pretty close tilll all of a sudden he distanced himself and just stopped speaking to me . then after about three months of not speaking he called asking for a lend of some money so thinking i'd be nice i gave him it .but then he started ignorin me again .then all of asudden about three weeks after that started turning up at my work (i'm a barmaid ) and just sitting there all night but still not really speaking to me !!! then on sunday night he started texting me i was at a party with some other friends and he kept asking if i was really happy there and why didn't i go round his for a drink bla bla bla ! now i'm really confused by his behaviuor ! i had come to terms with thinking he didn't want to be friends anymore and now i am just finding him wierd ! what do you guy's think ?
2007-02-14 22:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by Denise D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes i got the money back to those who wonder ! and when i asked him what he wanted from me his reply was i was more stupid than i thought !
2007-02-14 23:27:19 · update #1
Stay away from him. It's one thing to be his friend, it's another to be a push-over. He just uses you and your kind nature. If you work as a bar maid, you should have NO trouble finding a much better guy. Sorry for your misfortune and good luck! *smooch* :)
2007-02-14 22:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy Bi Chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not surwe why he's doing this but if you still want to be friends with him then you should call/text.talk to him ans ask
a)why he was acting this way
b)what did he eed the money for
c) can you help
and d) does he still want to be friends
hopefully, this is just a phase and no serious asctrion will need to be taken and you two will be best of buds in no time
i'm not experienced in these matters so you may want to really think over what you want to do befote you do it, but hopefully you'll make the right choice for you and your friend.
hope this helps
2007-02-14 22:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by wlskozy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the tone of your question it sounds like you're interested.
I'm sorry to have to say this but the 'User' sounds like a 'Loser'
Time to cut him loose & find a true friend.
He'll bend your bank account not just your ear.
P.S I'm with the drugs angle!
2007-02-14 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by bejay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he started to fancy you and got shy about it and stopped seeing you. But on the other hand he is borrowing money and acting strange.... Sounds like he might be on drugs to me.
2007-02-14 22:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by boomer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump him flat...sounds like a user and trying to mess with your mind.
There are millions of good guys out there you deserve better :)
Good luck and best wishes
2007-02-15 06:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to hit the road jack, if thats all he wants is to borrow money, and probably your body , being a man , and have had many affairs , i would tell you, if the man acts like that, its not worth the freindship to you , to have to worry about such things . life is tough enough, by itself, and good friends , are hard to come by; and good friends , don,t borrow money.
2007-02-14 22:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by david w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he either has a bird who is tellin him to stop talkin to you and when he doesnt see her he is sneaking to you or mythering you, or he could fancy you, blokes behaviour is weird around women they fancy.
2007-02-14 22:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
did he give you the money back ??, he sounds weird or confused??, talk to him ask him what he wants??
2007-02-14 23:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by maerdy1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weird! Stay clear, he may be psychotic.
2007-02-14 22:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by breezinabout 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds mental, steer clear!
2007-02-14 22:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋