please help me if u can
give me some experienced advise
about what shall i do next?
Thanx
2007-02-14 22:05:02 · 4 answers · asked by TheBestDamn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they do talk with me
we have a group of 4 frienz
and 2 of them always ignore me
they feel that they r much happier without me
and if sometimes one of my friend and i have had a fight between us then 3 of them take the others side
no one comes to me
i m really very sad
i hope if u can help me
i just can't live without them
2007-02-14 22:23:15 · update #1
Have you done anything to make any of them mad? most of the time if you make one mad and they choose that persons side they are all against you. try to figure out what it is that you did, if anything, to get them to ignore you. also once you figure out what it is try to make amends. If you let it go on and you just ignore them too then you will never become friends again. actually you will become enemys. believe me it is never fun. but that is the way the world works. so try to talk to one of them and once you know what is going on explain your side or trying to fix what you did wrong. I hope this works for you because losing friends because of drama sucks big time. it is even worse when you have to see them every day and see them laughing and joking about stuff without you.
2007-02-14 22:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them. if they feel happier without you, means you are giving them pressure. just some kind of pressure. you wont feel happy if you friends are mad, so just leave them. i did the same and i found 1 new friend. and shes great. this is the third year im knowing her and if i were to describe her, shes nothing but GREAT =D
2007-02-15 06:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends ever ditched me for almost three months. well i just keep quiet because i knew that i didnt do anything wrong. but if you do something wrong that made them mad at you try to say sorry. if they still ignore you, try to write something to them that can make them forgive you. if they still won't talk to you. well probably you just ignore them until they talk to you first, or find another friend who understands you. at that time when my friends didn't talk to me, i find another friend and he's very nice. at the same time when i'm very close to him they talk to me again. i don't know why. but now we're still friends. just try to do something that could make them forgive you and maybe you should think about the things that you have done to them.
if my advice still don't work, try to use my cousin's advice. when her friends ignored her, she bribe them by promising to treat them at the mall..maybe you should try it of my advice don't work
thx
happy trying
2007-02-15 06:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by institutionalized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happend??
Why are they ignoring you??
Say to your friends that your sorry or you can talk to them ( heart to heart talk) thats my advise to you i think that my advise could help.
2007-02-15 06:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by jaimee_808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋