A guy friend of mine has started haning out with me and my friends every weekend. Every Tuesday he gives me a ride to church, or we walk together. We have started eating together in the dining halls once in awhile and when our friends are there he sits next to me. We have text conversations and when we do talk on the phone its for 30 min or more. We are going on the same SB trip...We share alot of the same values and are becoming good friends. At dinner when I mentioned that I was going to the baseball game this weekend, he said "Give me a holler and I'll go with ya!" We went to the movies, and he left a seat between him and our other friend (I was to chicken to take it even though I was right behind him) he backed off for awhile but seems to be warming up again. He also said that on our SB trip he is going to have them sing Happy B-day at all the restaraunts(I'll be 20). He said it was a good thing that I would be with friends on my b-day and not alone like last year.
2007-02-14 22:04:28 · 2 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He also has offered multiple times to take me to the farm on the weekends so that I can care for the chickens (part of school). When I was in the hospital no one told him and he felt really bad because he didn't come see me. I like him but I dont want to embarass myself. Does he like me....What do I do?
2007-02-14 22:06:26 · update #1
What do you mean does he like you??? Of course he does---and he sounds nicer than most of the guys I read about here and in other places---so if you don't want to be in a relationship, have a respectful, quiet talk about it--just not ready but he is a nice guy---what else can you say--don't misread all this stuff he is doing--and don't ignore it---maybe he just wants to be friends--I have loads of girl FRIENDS---not dates--but we do lots together--as FRIENDS---find out what he is looking for--then go about your day---hey, be nice, be dignified, and be honest. If you aren't ready--really make it clear----just nicely advise him...in private and don't crush him--men and women are different emotionally---just be nice about it. And you might date later ---who knows. Good luck
2007-02-14 22:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great friend..i think you should just be his friend, until he is ready to initiate something more- if their is more. IF not then you won't have to worry about it, and just appreaciate your close bonded friendship.
2007-02-15 06:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋